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we're both busy but every time we text he immediately leaves and I asked why he leaves so far and he said he's addicted to his game, which he really is. But time goes on and I feel like he's lying. We're in a LDR so I can't do much, but hope he isn't. I can always tell if someone is cheating on me and I'm always right, he'll be my 4 if he does cheat. I became an expert in knowing. stupid, imagine becoming an expert in knowing whether he's cheating or not because you've got cheated on so much. Foolish. Lol I'm the problem ig. Don't know what's wrong with me, but let's just say the guys who cheated on me hurt so bad. They made fun of me with the girls they cheated one me with. I got threat texts. And now, if my boyfriend does it, it'll hurt me even more since I've never been so in love with a guy. I love him so much, it hurts that we barely text. And if he cheats. I don't know what'll happen.
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Have a heart to heart conversation with your bf. Tell him how you feel and what you expect from him . And also you can start playing the same game with him . Thus you can spend more time together and also a similar interest as him.
ReplyHon nobody is always right. He wouldn't know if you cheated and you wouldn't know if he did. Signs may be there but either one of you will never really be sure. Ask him to tell you the truth. If you're not satisfied look for someone else where.
ReplyCheating it usually not about you, unless it's "revenge cheating". Cheating is usually a very selfish act meaning the cheater is just jumping on the opportunity to enjoy him/her self, like a kid in a candy store. It takes a certain point of maturity to grow out of cheating. And sadly, the guys you get involved with are still very immature and selfish. I hope this helps, best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
ReplyIf he cheats, you will survive it. You will be sad and heartbroken, but you will survive it. I do not understand why you would question that about yourself. You should know that. When you understand this about yourself, then you will not be afraid and will be able to love without fear.
Love is for losers, my friend. All of us will and always will lose at love, but it's worth it. I would rather have known the people I have loved and lost, than to have never known them at all.
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