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I was having an affair with a "beautiful and kind" man. I loved him and he claimed to love me too. He told me that the reason why he was cheating on his girlfriend is that the relationship was just not working out. They were constantly fighting and didn't get along. He said he'd end the relationship and we'd officially get together and I stupidly agreed to date him before he could end the relationship anyway.
Unfortunately he passed away exactly a week after promising to leave his girlfriend for me. None of his friends who knew about me told me. I only found out that he died about a month later, the whole time I thought he was ghosting me. I've been heartbroken and grieving for a full year now. It's not easy grieving as the other woman. I'm convinced that his friends didn't say anything to me because they wanted to avoid a situation where I'd attend the funeral and come face to face with the girlfriend.
I have to keep my grief to myself because no one cares about the tears of a side chick. His friends that used to call me his future wife are nowhere to be found now.
I'm lowkey bitter that when they were cleaning up his apartment after his death, they probably found my undies and probably referred to me as one of his h*es or something.
This man was desperately trying to impregnate me in the month that we dated, he spoke about wanting to marry me and feeling like he had met the one with me. But this is a truth only known by me and him. To everyone else who knew of our relationship, I was just a meaningless mistress.
No matter what happens in your life, don't ever put yourself in this position.
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What a shame that you and he didn't marry.
Replylol, good one.
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