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Do you ever just want to feel understood by one person who is capable of feeling on the same level or in the same way? Just knowing that they are perfectly matched in headspace, experiences, intelligence, everything? I want to find someone like that to love, but the only person I've ever met who meets this for me is in a relationship already. Im pretty young and I understand that there is plenty of time, but its the fact that regardless, he means so much to me with or without him loving me back. I cant just let go like everyone suggests, because just being his friend has made life so much better, but I cant express how I feel without disrespecting his relationship, and I just want him to be happy. I know that plenty of people feel this way, but sometimes it feels like im different. I feel like the perfect opportunity is slipping through my fingers, even though if it were perfect then the situation would be different. Whats worse to me is that even if I wanted to be content with being only his friend, he is graduating from my school this year and I'm likely never to see him again, at least not for the next couple years. I honestly love him so much, at least if love is what I understand it as. I feel like to love someone is to be unconditionally willing to sacrifice for them, whether it be your life, time, or money, its worth it for them. When love becomes romantic though, at least in my eyes, you throw the longing to be near them all the time into the mix, and everything is harder to suppress. At the end of the day, I just love him so much but he can never know, and all I want is to spend more time with him before he leaves, but its hard when he already has a girlfriend. I know that I have plenty of time to find another guy like him, but I feel like it won't be the same as HIM, and I don't even know how to cope because this is the first time I've ever felt this way. I might be naive, but I don't even care anymore because I just want to love someone who understands. He understands, and people like him are so hard to find, I just hate how he could be just the right person at just the wrong time.
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What an honor to read such beautiful, pure, and descriptive words that relate to true love. Love that feeling, that emotion, that sensation. Love with that joy of seeing your loved one as an extension of you, with their joy being your joy, their sorrow being your sorrow.
It happens to all of us sweet friend. I admire wholeheartedly how well you are handling it, and I admire the intelligent kind that you have at such a young age, such deep emotional intelligence and maturity as well.
You are beautiful and someone to be proud of. I admire your loyalty and faithfulness to your own heart and depth of emotion and sincerity.
Sit with yourself and experience all the emotions dear to your heart. You are someone so wise that I don’t need to give you any advice, as I’m sure you probably would have already heard it.
So, just love my beautiful pure hearted friend, love. Love from a distance, from afar, in thought, in reminiscing, but just love.
As you always do.
Thank you for being the very standard of what it means to be “beautiful”.
You are amazing! Thank you for being who you are, just like you are. You are truly an admirable human being!
ReplyIf they break up go for him.
ReplyMany of us confuse romantic love with friendship. And ideally, you can have both, but in order for it to work out both of you must be physically and emotionally available when the romance starts, otherwise there will always be a certain mistrust with whomever was already in a committed relationship. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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