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I don't know if ever anyone who sees this will read it or continue reading it, but for those who does reads this, I would really want to ask for your advice. I feel like I am an aromantic as I don't really feel any romantic attraction to anyone, although I am aware that I do find some people attractive. Even I question myself most of the time or sometimes, I no one really likes me in the romantic aspect or am I just too not caring? Like there were instances I got teases or jokes from classmates before that some people liked me, or even now, I find some people to be very attentive of what I do when we don't even have any interaction to begin with. Am I just overthinking? I am starting to think that is there really something into those things or not? I am just worried that what if there was really someone who really liked me, and because of how nonchalant or even uncaring I am of my surroundings that I might have hurt someone unintentionally. But, isn't romantic attraction mostly based first on first impressions or how people have preferences and begin to like someone base on their preferences? If so, I don't know, but it is safe for me to say that I don't attract people in the romantic aspect and I don't find myself romantically attracted to anyone, although I have had crushes before. So, am I aromantic really? I don't even know if this sounds understandable, but for whomever will read this, if that won't take too much of your time, I kindly want to seek for advice. Thank in you in advance :))
P.S. I am kind of hoping that I am probably just overthinking this, or I don't know, I don't want to have intentionally hurt people without even becoming aware of it.
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You are young so you have plenty of time to meet someone who you are romantically interested in. It just hasn't happened yet.
ReplyThank you! I will keep that in mind:))
ReplyOoooh someone I can relate to!
Hello, sweetheart!
Sadly though, I can't really help you there. My country isn't exactly open nor knowledgeable about both sexuality and romantic spectrum. I'm in my late 20s, growing up I have similar situation like yours. Some crushes here and there but never really acted about it, no one seemed attracted to me (or I was just being my super oblivious self). A bit TMI: I also still have my V-card but at the same time I don't really care about sex, either. For the moment I labeled myself in the aro-ace spectrum just because its definition is the closest to what I feel, but that can change over time! Just enjoy your life to the fullest, darling. In the future, if we meet The One that's nice, but if not that's fine too ☺️
ReplyThank you! I will keep that in mind. I'll focus on other things first, and who knows what the future holds for us :))
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