Perspective

THIS IS THE UNTOLD STORY OF ABUSE.

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HE STARTS BY LOVE BOMBING HER,SHOWERING HER WITH COMPLIMENTS AND ATTENTION TELLING LIES ABOUT HIS FAMILY , TELLING FALSE STORIES ABOUT HIS MOTHER IS A ABUSER WHO ABUSED HIM SINCE HE WAS BORN, MANIPULATION ALL THE TIME.THIS IS THE UNTOLD STORY OF ABUSE.SHE SEES THE RED FLAGS BUT CONTINUES BECAUSE OF HER STRONG NEED FOR LOVE , CARE AND VALIDATION.SHE STARTS TO SEE ANOTHER EVIL SIDE OF HIM.THE YELLING,EXPLOSIVE ANGER,CRITICISM ATTACKS, EMOTIONAL ABUSES, LIES,COMPARISON TO OTHERS,JEALOUSY,INSECURITY.HE APOLOGISES,JUSTIFIES THIS BEHAVIOUR AND SHOWERS HER WITH AFFECTION TO REGAIN POWER.AGAIN THE CONTROL STARTS.HE MONITORS EVERY MOVE EVERYTHING SHE DOES AND HE WANTS HER TO BE GET DISTANCE FROM HER FAMILY,SIBLING,FRIENDS AND HE BECOMES JEALOUS WHEN SHE'S AROUND HER FAMILY AND OTHERS.SHE INTERPRETS IT AS GENUINE CONCERN AND CARE.HE ISOLATES HER FROM HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND WITHDRAWS AFFECTION WHEN THINGS DONT GO HIS WAY.HE PROMISES TO MAKE IT UP TO HER.AND THEN PHYSICALLY ABUSES HER.ONLY TO LATER,GASLIGHT HER,MAKING HER BELIEVE THAT SHE'S CRAZY OR OVERREACTING.UNTIL ONE DAY,HIS TACTICS NO LONGER WORK.SHE REMOVES HER ROSE COLOURED GLASSES AND FINALLY SEES HIM FOR WHO HE REALLY IS.THAT'S THE MOMENT SHE DECIDES THAT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.THAT'S THE MOMENT SHE FINALLY GATHERS THE STRENGTH TO " BREAK FREE". I AM STILL CAGED.