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A Narcissistic Leo Man with A Terrible Sagittarius Mother As A Bully
1 month ago · 1 · Leo, +3 · Explicit
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I take back what I said. I truly thought that you were a nice guy, but I seriously think that you're obsessed with me because you want to be me. I broke up with you two years ago and yesterday when you contacted me, I could hear the anger in your voice. I couldn't stop laughing and had to mute myself for a bit because I couldn't fathom how a guy like yourself truly believes that I owe you my time, my body, and most importantly my money. I am not your girlfriend and I made that very clear to you two years ago and I told you why I was leaving. I didn't and still don't feel bad because you've failed to take accountability for your actions.
You don't even see how your own mother is setting you up for fail. So, let me begin
When I first met you, you lied and said that the white car you had was yours (and it wasn't...you had another woman who wasn't your mother rent the vehicle for you and then I later found out from one of your so called friends at work that the woman came back to take the car because you two had an agreement). You were supposed to be picking her up and dropping her off, but you were too busy trying to impress me and others by driving us around. So, she came to the job and took the car back and you were sitting on the sidewalk crying as the other guys laughed at you.
You then found another victim and deliberately treated that car like trash because you were mad at this woman for having good credit and didn't care about the state that you left the car in.
You also pretended to have a lot of money and would always offer to buy me things whenever we were together and I would often decline because I didn't want anything from you. You would come up with these nick names and send early morning messages and texts, but I knew that it was coming to an end because I instantly noticed how fast you stopped offering to buy me things and or would constantly talk about me living on my own.
Let me state that this guy was a street dealer and in my opinion, your credit and finances should be better than anyones because you're making that money under the table. LET IT WORK FOR YOU.
I noticed how clingy you started to get and expected me to follow you everywhere. People would gravitate towards me and you would just walk away and that's when I noticed how uncouth you truly were. You wanted me around for the attention that you would receive because nobody paid attention to you.
You told me how you go to the clinic every week and get tested which was also a lie. You told me that you graduated from high school, but your mother confirmed that you barely finished middle school because you would never go.
I finally saw everything for what it was when I asked you to read something for me and you instantly got defensive and became argumentative. That's when I realized that you couldn't read. When I started seeing that you were smoking more of your product than selling, I started to question where your customers really were. That's when you started talking about "let's plan our future together". I told you that I wasn't interested in moving that fast because I was focused on myself and my goals.
The first time we had sex, I thought it was okay, but my body started acting funny after and that's when everything came to reality.
When I asked about your last STI test, you got angry and started saying how you have no symptoms for anything and you're super clean. Well, I guess my doctor must've bought her degree online or something because my STI test came back positive and you were the only person that I was with.
I blatantly told you that I wasn't going to be having sex with you anymore and that it would be best for you to find someone else because there would be no point in having a relationship with you. I wanted you to go away and you did the complete opposite because you were so desperate and pathetic to be desired. Your exact words were: "Well, sex isn't everything. We don't have to have sex all of the time"<<From December to February, I had sex with you once and I wanted you gone. You then started asking me about what I would do if you cheated on me and I said that I'd leave and wish you the best with your new boo. LOL You didn't like my response.
I asked about your family doctor and you stated that you never had one even though your mom said that she goes to the doctor's every year (both of you are pathological liars and NOW i see why your dad wanted nothing to do with your mother - hence why you have her last name and not your dad's). You told me that your dad wanted to meet up and talk with you and introduce you to your other siblings, but your mom made sure that NONE of that happened. It was really pathetic how you tried to paint your mother as a victim when she's guilty. Why else wouldn't she want her son to meet his father? Especially after she cried crocodile tears about being a single mother and how hard it was for her. I even reminded her that a woman can't teach a boy how to be a man just like a man can't teach a girl how to be a woman.
You expected me to agree with you and your mom and I didn't - you didn't like that either.
I was raised with proper etiquette and I would say hello to your mom whenever I would see her, but she would never respond and would just stare at me. Whenever I would go to the hairdresser's you would always get upset and or try to sabotage my appointment by acting out. You would deliberately schedule your clinic appointments around my hair appointment and then say that you didn't have gas and would have to get some. You would magically forget your debit card and there were two times that you didn't pay me back, but I left it alone because that's when I saw you for the broke bum that you were. You would make backhanded comments like: "Oh it must be nice to get your hair done at the salon. It must be nice to be catered too" I now believe that you're one of those guys that's jealous of women like myself and are actually in competition with me.
You started talking about us opening up a business together and I instantly shut that shit down! I wasn't interested in doing anything with you. I even told you to go and open up a business with your twin brother and leave me the fuck out of it. You never respected that boundary and would continue talking about how we'd be good business partners and I'd just ignore you.
You wanted me to kiss you all of the time and you wanted me to cater to you and you wanted me to applaud you for paying for your lazy ass mom's bills because her fat ass didn't want to go back to work.
This woman is robbing you blind by taking all of your paycheque and just giving you enough to buy alcohol and put gas in the car (the same car that belongs to another woman) you can't even use your mom's credit because she doesn't have any!
You would purposely make a mess in my house, leave the tv on all night, make a mess in the bathroom and wouldn't clean it up. You'd eat up my food and then started making requests about what you wanted but you can't cook, clean, do laundry and or even wash your ass properly (yes! I saw the skid marks in your boxers when you left them on the bathroom floor and that was another reason why I didn't want to have sex with you) You made it so easy to be turned off and repulsed by your existence. You can't even wash your own hair and or budget your own money accordingly. You couldn't make your own appointments and had the nerve to eavesdrop on my calls with my doctors etc and would chime in: "Can you schedule my appointment too?" I'd reply: "Wherever your paycheque goes ask your assistant to schedule your appointments for you"
You couldn't even order pizza for yourself because you said that you don't talk to people like that...um wtf does that mean? Your mom raised you to be a fucking liability to people and it's ugly!
Your mom said that you've never done anything with your life but will gladly take money from you, sit in the same vehicles that other women are leasing or renting for you and doesn't even have the decency to acknowledge these women with respect.
I had no issues telling your mother how disgusting you are and how you were the worst house guest that I had ever experienced. She had a blank stare on her face and then replied: "His brother is better" and I couldn't understand why she said that.
You wanted me to take you out with my other social groups but you don't have any etiquette, you don't even have a suit to dress in. Just a whole bunch of stupid athletic gear and shoes, not to mention you seriously lack conversation skills and are super insecure with no money. Where the fuck are you going? WHY ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS? THEY ALWAYS WANT TO BE IN OTHER SPACES WHERE THEY DON'T BELONG AND WILL TRIGGER THEIR INSECURITIES.
Once you saw that I was keeping you at bay, you thought that insulting me and or my hobbies would make me want you even more. I thought it was funny when you said that I should go to the same hairdresser that your mom goes to and I instantly told you that I have my own hairdresser and I don't need your unsolicited advice about what to do. I don't ever need a man telling me where to get my hair done LOL ARE YOU SLOW?
When I officially ended things with you, you were upset that I brought back all of your belongings. You even asked me: "Why did you do that?" I told you it was because I didn't want you having an excuse to come back to my place. Plus, I was saving you a trip.
It was funny when your mother kept bragging to me about her accomplishments and when I stated that it would be good for him to get his GED, she fell silent.
The fact that it's been two years and you're still angry that I broke up with you says so much about you! You didn't improve in any fashion and still had the nerve to ask me to be your friend and I said NO!
Even your mother (same woman who wouldn't say hello to me and only bragged about herself that one time) begged me to be your friend and stay in contact with you and I laughed. Your mother did a terrible job raising you and essentially engaged in child abuse and neglect...if you didn't finish middle school, didn't graduate high school, never been to the dentist, got your eyes checked and or have a family doctor - wtf was this woman doing? Why did she even birth you?
The way you boldly stuck your chest out and stated that I needed to share my money with you and how you begged me to give you three kids (internal vomit). I kept asking why you felt entitled to my money because you weren't my husband and I never inquired about your finances. You got upset and then I realized that it was because your mother was taking your paycheque and you wanted me to treat you like a prize.
Even when your mom made fun of you in public, calling you a short shrimp and laughed at you, you said absolutely nothing. I had to tell your mother that that wasn't a nice thing to say and she's short and fat herself LOL I didn't understand it.
I watched how the two of you just barked at each other and she only told you how much she loved you after receiving something: money, a gift and or a ride....definitely transactional.
It's funny how men don't even realize that their relationships with their mothers are VERY TRANSACTIONAL! No wonder so many of you are angry with women who are independent like myself and not yearning for a man. I love my own company and I'm not desperate for a relationship especially one with you. Gross!
I'm really sorry that you're incapable of breaking the enmeshed relationship that you have with your mother because when she dies OH BOY!! YOU'RE GOING TO NEED AN EXCEPTIONAL AMOUNT OF COUNSELLING AND OR YOU MIGHT AS WELL JUST LIVE WITH YOUR COUNSELLOR
So, to all of the people out there who say stupid shit like: "He's a nice guy, you should give him a chance. Don't be so judgmental. blah blah" fuck you! NOT EVERYONE IS DESERVING OF A CHANCE AND THERE'S A REASON FOR THAT!
You and your mom tried to accuse me of giving you an STI, when you're the one who admitted to never having a doctor after we had sex but refused to get tested at the clinic.
I feel sorry for the both of you. But you served as an inspiration of what not to be and I appreciate that.
I hope you find it within you to move on and grow up and grow away from your mother. But at this point, you're damaged goods and she's on her way out of this world pretty soon and hasn't taught you the resources to be a self sufficient man. It's sad, but also not my problem.
I'll definitely keep sharing this as an example and this is why I wish more people would focus on men and their unhealthy relationships with their mothers because a lot of them are acting like surrogate husbands and then expecting to be rewarded outside of their homes for what they do inside that benefits their mothers....
No woman in her right mind would sign up for that
I'm sorry that you were taught to treat people like shit and expect them to stay, but then again that's the dynamic that you have with your mother.
Two months and a great learning experience.
I'm not dating ever again. I'm not having a man come to my place ever again. I don't even want any guy friends. I don't want to get married and or have kids with any of them.
I have my health, wealth and my sanity. Good luck to you and your surrogate wife.
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Wow im sorry that you had to experience that but you did the right thing and its good that it didnt take you forever to see who he truly was. It sounds like he really is in a relationship with his mother except for the sex part lmao
Good thing you didnt have any kids with him!
Wishing you all of the best. Thank you for sharing
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