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my boyfriend doesnt want me to go to college mainly because of the videos he sees of girls when they get into college they immediately cheat, or guys try something on them, but i always try to tell him that those things wont happen because i only have eyes for him, i would do anything for him to not worry about it, but he just has trust issues because of something that i did to him in the past, which we got over with and moved on, i regretted that day so much, he knows im sorry, but ever since that day i think it scarred him and our relationship. i really dont know what to do. i want to do anything for him to completely trust me again. he keeps thinking im going to cheat on him, but i literally have him in my prayers, im risking so much for him, i do so much for him and only him, everyday he's always going to come first, i really only want him, he makes every other guy non existent. but im still working on trying to get his ultimate trust back, help me. please.
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Sit down with him and tell him all this. Both of you communicate and reach to an understanding.
ReplyAlso if guys are an issue u can go to a girls college. They're some rlly good ones out there :)
ReplyThe decision should be yours at the end.
ReplySo you did something that’s effecting his trust in you, so let’s break it down you cheated on him and he took you back. He made a mistake right there. You should do whatever you want, realize that you will cheat on him again stop fooling yourself. However that shouldn’t determine your decision. Understand that teenage relationships almost never last. The two of you need to wake up. He should have not taken you back that’s an insult to him. Cheat on him again and rub in his face, he needs the lesson.
Reply...Okay but everyone always says that about cheaters, what if they HAVE changed... and aren't going to be doing that again?
ReplyCheating is very selfish, and only maturity outgrows it. An environment like college is very tempting, so really my only opinion is to be sure and exit the committed relationship if you fall to temptation again. As for him trusting you again, that is up to you to earn his trust, and I suspect it will take trials and time. Best of luck.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus.
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