IM SCARED

HELLP ME i think i'm on the verge of falling in love with a guy my family knows. THATS NOT THE WORST PART THO. Worst part is, i don't know if he's related to me, if he's my cousin, uncle (LMAOO HELL NO), or just someone apart of my family who live abroad. I have family abroad, and I think he's like further down somewhere on the family tree.. i don't know. And like he's my age, and then he's got brothers that r like in their mid 30s and OUT OF RESPECTT i call them my uncle, but the thing is, I don't know if they're like my ACTUAL uncles, cause if they are then this guy im starting to like also is.. ICK. Its confusing cause i havent been abroad to my extended family in 4 years, and so like I pretty much forget who's who. And they all live in a village back home, all friends w eachother. Also, where some of my family lives, they live in like a massive home inside a gate, but its seperated into 2 parts. One where my family/relatives live, and one where other ppl ik live. BUT THEN LIKE THE GUY THAT IM BEGINNING TO LIKE, I CALL HIS DAD UNCLE. And atp i dont know if its a 'out of respect' thing or if hes actually my uncle.. omg.

I can't ask my ma about this either, cause she's quite strict and she'll give me a whole rant about how I shouldn't be thinking about guys in that way yet. She talked about him the other day. Basically, my ma calls family abroad daily to talk to her mum (my grandma) and the guy that i think i like, he lives in that house i mentioned earlier about where its seperated into 2 sections. (no clue which section he lives in) And like, my ma phoned his mum (my aunt???) to js catch up on stuff, and then she told her about some things he's accomplished recently. Then my ma decided to tell me in the car but she got cut off with her convo cause she got another phone call.. she was like ''Oh yk Aunt (her name), she wants you to know that (the guy i like's name)-'' then she got cut off. After she did tell me, but i feel as if she didn't tell me everything she would've? I won't mention what the guy accomplished, but I THINK THATS WHY IM LEANING TOWARDS HIM MORE. But omg, i'm scared he's related to me in any way, and i wanna know what he is to me before my mind goes crazy and i have all these scenarios of having like the dream love life w him (CRAZY I KNOW.)

Maybe i forgot to mention, but i prob wont be going abroad to my family this year, so... until next yr ig

ANYWAY WHAT DO I DO????????