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I am married and have 2 daughters. I know my husband since my graduation days, we became friends and fell in love and got married. We have two beautiful daughters. In the beginning we were happy, used to have fun, make love, and enjoy the life. As years passed we started to grow apart. He had cheated on me once and it was like a bullet to my heart. I started to hate him, dint stand him being anywhere near to me. But destiny was such that we still stayed because he was still caring and loving towards me even though I used to hate him. He is a good father and I don't want my daughters to be taken away from him. We still are together but it's never been the same since his cheating. We don't talk much, no physical relationship at all. But recently in all this I cheated too I dint know how but things got out of hand. I did the same mistake too. My husband came to know about it and I see he is hurt but he doesn't even speak to me now. He just looks over way when I come in front of him. He rarely talks anything to me. I in trying to find some happiness lost the one who used to make me happy and smile with all his deeds. I realize now how much I actually miss my husband. Please advice how should I get things sorted out. I need my husband. Can't let go of him who I knew since so long.
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leave him. you can't let life pass by just because you've known him for long. is he serving you in any way? leave him. just because you have daughters doesn't mean you cant leave him and put yourself first.
ReplyOh I'm so sorry to hear that, he should not have cheated on you, that is a very cheap action. You also should not have cheated, but it's good you understand your mistake.
You have two daughters, I like how you think about them, and yes I agree with you.... Because we grow old, we will fall out of love naturally, but children only have 1 childhood, parents make sacrifice for their kids... If he is a loving dad, do you want to put your kids through a broken household? No you don't ..
So explain this to your husband, tell him sorry... And say that's how you felt as if he doesn't love you anymore and the whole cheating thing, and then say for the sake of your kids you don't want any tension between you two, so maybe he'll understand? It's good to talk first. .. ..
Better to work on saving the marriage than to leave the family, good luck 🌼
ReplyTalk to him and tell him that you miss him. To get things sorted out you both should go to see a marriage counselor. The counselor should advise you how to fix things so that you are both back to normal.
Replywhy the hell are you even bothered by him? i understand he's your husband and a father but he cheated on you first.. once a cheater is always an cheater.. you would have never cheated on him if he didn't do it first.. so stop going behind him... nothing will be same anymore.. what example you wanna give to your daughters? that you both were playing cheating cheating??? get the hell out of there with your kids, take custody and move on.. please.. your husband don't even deserve you.. bloody cheater..
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