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My friend and I were in a situationship for about 3-5 months and I decided to confess my feelings to him. His response was " I'm not ready for a relationship and I don't feel the same way you do, but I do like you, just not romantically nor platonically. I like you in my own way."
We continued speaking like normal, while I kinda just try to get over my feelings for him. We would call now and then and text each other like normal until one day, when we haven't been texting for 5 days, he changed his pfp to something else. The pfp he had before was a drawing I drew for him when we just started becoming friends, and when he sorta fell for me (only in the beginning tho, he said he lost that spark now..). He said he'd never change his pfp no matter what but that night, on the night that we would usually call, he did. And we didn't call that night or any time after that. I found it strange cuz just the week before, he told me how much he looks forward to the weekends to call me and chat about our days.
So I didn't reach out to him because it's always been me who's been doing that. He hasn't reached out to me either. Does this mean I've been ghosted..? I didn't really try to reach out to him, but he didn't even say anything about our weekly call session, or about him changing his photo..
I noticed that when we play games together with our friend group, he acts different with me than usual. He's less loud and doesn't try to pick a fight with me anymore. He doesn't talk to me directly and only talks to me when our friends would tease me about something. I.. also noticed him always playing games with his new friend who's a girl, and I do remember him mentioning how cute she sounds when she says his name..
Idk.. I feel like I should try reaching out to ask him what's up with us? Why the sudden radio silence? He didn't even reject me properly and he told me I was special? Did he lie? I remember him telling me he'd chase me down if I ever try to leave him, in terms of our friendship but he's the one who's distancing himself from me? It hurts so much becuz I feel betrayed at how easily he can just cut off what we had. All the sweet words and comfort he gave me, just gone down the drain..
I wanna give more context but I don't want to take your time reading this. Just know that, he used to like me but I wanted to slow down to confirm my feelings (I recently broke up with my ex at the time) and months later when I was sure of my feelings, his feelings dissipated. He said he'd try and think about it and see how it goes but instead he didn't contact me anymore after that. The last conversation we had wasn't even bad, it was a normal, like usual.
I don't know what to do. I've just been crying every night thinking about what went wrong and if I should've reached out to him that night he changed his pfp, and the night we would've usually called each other.. My friends tell me I need to move on but it's so hard to do that (;___;;)
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You’re a girl it should be easy to move on. Snap your fingers and he will be replaced. If you cannot do that you need to go to a gym and eat a healthy diet. He’s falling for the other girl. Honestly I see that as immature because he could have you both but either he does t know how or he has a pee wee blue pilled mindset.
ReplyPee wee blue mindset 🤣🤣 Thank you, I needed to hear that. Coincidentally I don't go to the gym nor do I have a healthy diet. I guess I could start focusing on that.
Replygirl this is the truth if u wanna hear it. dont reach out to him. hes moved on. if u reached out to him, what would u say?? why did u change ur pfp? bc i think the answer is very obvious. sorry to be blunt but its clear he doesnt like u anymore. ive been thru a similar situation, men are just like that and ill tell u rn what ur feeling probably isnt love or even like u just miss when u were the center of his attwntion which is fine. it doesnt make u self centered or whatever its natural but dont confuse that with actually being into him. i know its hard to move on but u have to, just develop a f him mentality
ReplyIt's just that feeling of betrayal that hurts so much, cuz we're also friends you know? Even as a friend, I can't believe he can be such a jerk. It's only been a few weeks since he ghosted me so I'm still going through the feelings but I am slowly trying to move on. It's kinda hard to have an f him mentality right now but I will try. Thank you for your words ;-;
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