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Some days I feel like losing my life to my inner child.
Failures makes me wonder whether I will get beatings from my mom or inappropriate words from my dad.
Some nights are tough when I sleep alone asking my heart what will heal me and get me through the night.
Every day is tough to see the same people who make me regret the choices and decisions I made for them sacrificing my dreams.
Being a elder daughter takes a lot of compromise and guilts to hold on to. Even if you are the one who is fighting against everything in the process you will be blamed for every mistakes and failures. No one will be able to hug you, console you or give you a shoulder to cry on to. (Not even a kerchief will be handy enough at those times). Elder daughter, and the dreams are piles apart. But being an elder and only daughter!!! Hmm!!
Nothing makes more sense than buying everything and eating more when you are full of anxiety and depression!! Buy you one dress and you will be blamed for spending!! But buy them a dress they will be flaunting that to everyone!! Be fat and you will be asked to cut down a bit to look good for the random men who walk into the apartment, u bought to rank and reject you.
Having less melanin is good for us is what I learned in biology🙋🏼‍♀️. But here that is a main rejection criteria for women. If you have acne or scars or stretch marks or pigmentation, medically they are due to hormonal misbalances or due to stress or some mental or physical condition. But here this is due to the fact we both bath correct and we are going out in the sun for long time and we eat lot of food. What more!!
Women can’t decide what to wear because men and this society (in the sense MEN) are not the safest places for women - quoted by the MEN in our lives. Great of them to care for us but rather they should have cared about their upbringing.
Parents!!Parents!! The most wanted criminals in the life of elder or the only daughters!(rather daughters) Parents do things and blame us like we have some super powers to control their actions or whatever they do. It’s not our fault when they break something while we are sitting 10m away from that place. It’s never our fault to go out and hang with our friends when all our parents do is bitch about other parents and neighbours especially relatives.
Being a daughter doesn’t stop us from playing games even though they are male dominated. Being women does not mean we don’t have a say in what they do to us!! It’s okay to get 97,91,99 and whatever, u don’t need to be a perfect score everytime in life. It’s okay to fail sometimes and learn from it!!
Its okay to bunk college and see movies or just come to home and have a nap(since we wake up early to take buses at 6.45AM) It’s always us before anyone in the world.
We deserve to be loved and cherished 🫶❤️ Not every day we wake up happy and it’s okay to be sad and depressed for a while. Life will move on and we will be happy one day.
We will achieve our dreams and fly together.
We can’t stop and we won’t stop until we get there.
Don’t get afraid to move out of your parents place when all they do is disrespect and degrade you.
It’s okay to expect appreciation and gifts from your loved ones for the sacrifices we make.
Its okay if we don’t know how to cook, how to wash clothes or vessels, how to iron our MEN clothes. We do have machines now a days and we are quick leaners too(including MEN).
It’s okay to dress up for a casual meeting or even for a normal place. Doesn’t mean we are leading the MEN, it just means we are grooming ourselves and taking good care of ourselves. It’s called SELF-CARE!!
I don’t want to be an over achiever and not be able to accept the small wins in my life and waiting for an large and overwhelming win which might never happen. We don’t have to be teachers pet and get our friends or class mates get caught. We can be a naughty kid and smart one at the same time.
It’s okay to talk during class and get beatings for that.
It’s okay to fight for our friends and being called to principal room.
It’s fine to forget homework’s and class work for one day and watch Shinchan.
Missing van and making our parents drop us is normal and not a mistake. We can’t be punctual all the time.
Running and falling down and having dirt in our shoes is a good sign we are healthy and not wrong to break a leg sometimes in life.
100/100 is achievable and it’s remarkable to achieve that. But 35/100 takes great effort to nail it too. 67/100 also takes a lot of effort and group studies and last minute notes sharing from toppers(huh!! First benchers!). We can get 20 sometimes in life and it’s okay because not everyone will excel in the same field. If you are 20 in math and 90 in sports and I am 95 in math and 10 in sports, then it’s a win-win. We can’t decide the way our brain works. Whatever tuitions or institutes we go for our board exams can’t help us is we don’t like the subject or the teacher who takes it. Everyone need PASSION in whatever work they do. Don’t let the marks play a role in your mind. Dying because of this is stupid and it’s not worth it!!
It’s okay to cry for things ❤️ and don’t stop if you are asked to stop crying and be silent. We can cry when we being beaten up by parents or teachers and them asking us not to cry out loud, not sure whether they know common psych or not, it’s like suppressing our feelings and we can’t express it when we grow up.
Parents are the people who have to feel the guilt for treating us like that in our childhood and we are not responsible for their actions or mistakes.
It is okay to go on a trip with our girl friends even if you parents think you are lying or you are not okay to go on a trip until you are married.
It’s okay to not get married and love yourself all your life!!🫶
It’s okay to not have children by choice and it’s okay to adopt, do IVF or surrogacy or anything to get a child unless no one is killed. It’s okay to give birth to a girl 👶.
Embrace the stretch marks and food cravings and don’t care 🤷‍♀️ about the people and the advices to reduce weight after pregnancy.
Not everyone can have a normal delivery and be okay within days of delivery, we deserve rest for C-Section and it’s okay to not cook for everyone in the family.
Live the life as you like!! Love yourself!! Don’t care about your past guilts and regrets!!
Life is wonderful and we need to love each second and minute we live.
We deserve to be loved by someone unconditionally and we truly deserve it.❤️❤️
It’s okay to have mood swings at your partner during your dates. It is okay to eat more and have more cravings during that time. If he does not get it, please ladies leave him!!
Love your cravings and love your weight!! It is okay to have male friends and talk with them and hang out with them! It is fine even if people judge us for that like we are not brought up correctly or we like being with men.
It is okay to cry when we win or achieve something in front of everyone.
It is okay to go against parents and marry someone we love and get loved all our life.
We can have a haircut and get blamed for losing our feminity in that lost hair. We can get dyed and get scoldings for ruining our hair. Keratin or smoothening or coloring or dying or whatever we want, we do!!
We can have pedicure and manicure and feel good about our nails when we present in our office or shake hands with someone. It is okay to have facials or whatever skin treatments to make us feel good and confident.
Not every day we have the chance of doing the things we love, so do it when u get it.
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