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I'm currently facing a difficult situation at work. Someone has falsely accused me, and now I feel like an outcast. Nobody greets me, invites me to their gatherings or even bothers to have a simple conversation with me. It's hard to deal with such people, and it feels like an eternity when you have to face them every day.
I don't like being pitied, but maybe if I had spoken up for myself earlier things wouldn't have gotten worse. I think my past experiences have made me afraid to stand up for myself, and the thought of being retaliated against for being assertive is traumatic. I'm used to being ignored, and I hoped that wouldn't happen this time, but it seems like it's inevitable. There will always be people who don't like you for no reason. They might be envious of you or just not like the way you talk or act.
The fact that I'm being treated like an outcast is taking a toll on me. It's affecting my work, and I'm constantly being yelled at or given projects to do on my own when group participation is essential. It's depressing and makes me feel isolated. Unfortunately, the economy forces me to take that type of treatment as I can't afford to leave without a flow of income.
I've been trying to find a new job, but it's been a struggle, and it's making me feel hopeless. I want to cry, but I keep it all inside. I don't know if things will get better, but people keep telling me that they will once I find a new job. But what if it's my fault? Maybe I shouldn't have been so invisible, and maybe I should have stood up for myself. These thoughts keep haunting me, and I feel alone in this tough situation.
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A big mistake many people make is thinking their coworkers are their friends. They’re not. If it was not for the income you would not associate with eachother. Some of you may not like what I just said but the truth is that. Falsely accused of what exactly? It is proven that the accusations is false? Yet you are treated as if you have done something your falsely accused of? Sounds to me like staying there is disrespectful to yourself.
ReplyI knew someone who had the same thing happen to him. He was wrongly accused of doing something and the rest of the staff talked about him and wouldn't have anything to do with him. He left. I hope you find another job soon.
ReplyStart being assertive now.
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