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So, I've written about this before but tldr: me and guy were friends for about 6 months. We had a situationship and he kinda led me on, which led me to confess and him turning me down because he wasn't ready for commitment. He ghosted me for about 3 weeks and during that time I was left questioning whether our friendship and whatever we had meant anything to him.
Well, he reached out to me yesterday and told me what I already assumed. He left me and went radio silence because he befriended this girl, who reminded him of his ex. He sorta fell for her and kinda abandoned me and our friend group for hers. He couldn't muster up the courage to tell me all of this because of guilt. Then, he had a wake up call when he notices the girl he was crushing on starting to love bomb him, and he knew that wasn't right and a bit manipulative. Well, turns out yeah, she was manipulating his feelings because apparently she's done that with her other guy friends as well. Feeling heartbroken, he confessed his feelings to her and got turned down and decides to move on from that and go back to us (his old friend group).
Now he's apologizing to me for leaving me and not being there for me when I was hurt deeply. I honestly, don't know how to feel. He was really apologetic about it and felt bad about what he did. I'm not really the type to hold a grudge and I just forgave him. We talked a bit more and stuff but yeah.. I mean, he basically wants to make it up to me somehow and hopes we can still be friends again.
A part of me that really cares for him as a friend, unbiased of my romantic feelings for him, feels bad because I know what he's been through before this and now he's going through something that sucks once again. But another part of me is remembering all those lonely and painful nights I had seeing him online, talking to another girl. Feeling like, "Is it me that's not good enough? Am I the problem? Did our friendship at least meant nothing to him?".
I feel betrayed, but I feel relieved in a way as well because I'm glad he's safe. There's just so much mixed emotions in me and I kinda wanna just, not think about it for now and let it sink in first.. This is really draining me and making me mentally tired (lol)
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Move on. Let me tell you, hypothetically you don’t move on. If he ever gets the opportunity to chase someone he thinks is better then you he will quickly. Avoid that because the more emotional attachment you have for him the worse it’s going to feel
ReplyKeep this in the friend zone.
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