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So after how many years, I finally had a boyfriend. However, the problem is he's only good at the start of the relationship. While we're getting to know more about each other, I'm starting to discover that he is too self-centered and is a gaslighter. I like how he thinks about his future and his career. I like how he negotiates with people. He is good at business and in his professional career. However, he sucks at being a boyfriend. He never cares about what I feel and what I have to say. He never replies to me whenever I open up and just opens another topic instead. He is the most rude and selfish guy I've ever been with. It's my first time to have a boyfriend that doesn't listen to me. Also, we are in a long distance relationship which makes it harder for me to communicate with him because he's always busy, we're in different time zones, and yeah he sucks at communicating. He only wants to be listened to but he never wants to listen to me. I was so fucking happy when I was single. My life was peaceful, and I only get sad when my parents and I fight, but now, I'm almost sad everyday because of him. So, now, I'm quite regretting that I let him in my life. I should have focused more on myself and continued being single because it's more peacfeul that way. I never have to worry about a selfish man who is so far that I don't even know if he's cheating or not because his following on Instagram are full of women who look like hoes. Idk but if you would ask me now, I want to end the relationship already. I don't know if my decision would still change but I'm so tired of him. It's only been months and I'm already fucking drained. I don't want to see myself suffering because of a guy EVER AGAIN. So, I will not talk to him first and clear my mind because I will be the one who's going to be miserable in the end if I let his pride and ego consume me. He should have healed himself first before entering a relationship because he is emotionally draining. He sucks the love and life out of me. I have too much love to give and it seems like he doesn't care. I hate this. I still have a lot of things to do and here I am thinking about this stupid guy. I should have blocked him the first time he talked to me. This shit is tiring as fuck. My relationship with him should be my safe space not another battle to fight. My life is already shitty enough for him to get into it and make it shittier.
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I think you know what to do. You just need to bring the courage. It is okay to love yourself. Being disrespected and ignored is never the option, no matter how perfect the guy is. Know matter what respect yourself. Do whatever it takes. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Do not waste time with him.
ReplyI think you know what to do. You just need to bring the courage. It is okay to love yourself. Being disrespected and ignored is never the option, no matter how perfect the guy is. Know matter what respect yourself. Do whatever it takes. There is plenty of fish in the sea. Do not waste time with him.
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