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i talked to him, he's doing well, he's got a girlfriend. I'm happy for him, I am, but it bothers me I havent talked to him in a long time and now when I do it just the exact same feelings I had when I met him, he makes me nervous and so fucking happy. I know I need to let him go and be happy, I want whats best for him, however I still want him to be with me, is probably fucked up but I dont know what to do, I tried to stop talking to him but is the little things that he does that just drag me back to him. Maybe I can be just friends with him?
Idk i need advice on this
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I am going to tell you something that you're not going to like. there is only ONE surefire way to get over a person, and that is to stop talking to them. I know it hurts, I know you want him in your life, but if you want to forget about your feelings (and you should, because someone who doesn't want to be with you is not the right person for you to pine over) you just have to cut contact until you forget about it. it SUCKS. I've been in your boat many times, and you will cry and you will miss him and want to text him, but just don't. stop talking to him and find something else to do with your time. you will meet someone that wants you just as much as you want them.
ReplyForgive me for saying it’s evident you’re not as happy for him as you claim to be because your post screams that you’re not over him at all and want him back? Is that it if we’re being honest? It’s not a crime it’s natural feelings but you said you don’t know what to do - that’s the important part. What you do will depend on whether or not you care more about his/his gf’s feelings than your own. You could be selfish and stir things up or you could deal with your feelings privately and move on.
In answer to your final question it would very likely not work just being friends with him, if your feelings are strong enough you won’t be able to hold back. You also might want to consider that he may not take kindly to you interfering and it might backfire on you
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