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Hey there! Actually this thought is bugging me almost everyday. So I wanted to free my mind atleast here. See I have an elder sister who is really really old than me. The thing is that I feel my mom and she has a special type of bond. I feel left out in their conversation. I am so sad. It's like I feel left out in my family. All the things that happen, I never get to know. When there is some discussion I am always the when like "ohh so you all know! ".why is it like that. I know I should not be bothered but I feel like I am left out. Please help. I just need some advice. I am not the villian in my family ryt?
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I wish I could help you but the only think that I can say is that that they probably dont want you to feel like that. There are some times when anyone is left out but if it really happens regularly then maybe you should talk about it with them? They could share more stories with you so you could laugh with them about them. And maybe you could also try to get closer to your mom? Like spend more time with her. Ask her to go shopping together or for a walk somewhere or maybe even go for a short trip together? Just the two of you. It doesnt have to be anywhere far away. Anything should work
ReplyTalk to your mother and your sister about this and ask them to include you in things instead of leaving you out.
ReplyYou're not the villain. And you can try to talk to your mother about this, if you have peace about it. But there may not be anything you can do about this.
my sister was about a decade older and my mother would force me to come shopping with them on Saturdays, bc I was too young to be left home alone, and they wouldn't talk to me all day, except to tell me I had bad taste. they'd be in the front of the car and I'd be in the back seat and try about ten times to enter the conversation, and it was like I literally didn't exist.
personally, I kept learning about j*sus and his love for me, and now I am part of his family forever, and he is healing my heart. I like the website ficm dot org where it explains that chr*st makes us accepted, secure, and significant. I'm not meaning to push this on you if it sounds upsetting, and I know a lot of people who claim to love him, are really cruel... but some people really live out his love. just sharing my thoughts and experience. I hope you find peace and emotional healing.
ReplyI hear you same here.
It's like my sister but she's only 1y 4m between us. And ever since I can remember it's always about her I think they call it middle child syndrome as I have two younger sisters and one younger brother I was left out of everything I use to think like ooh my sister can do this at 15 so next year its my turn so the year rolls around and I'm woo my turn but no I just get laughed at or told no.
As the years rolled by still the same I can't do shit bit everyone can. I just come to terms with it. So don't worry it's not just you most of us have the same situation we just have to learn to deal with it.
Or you could talk to your mum and let her know how you feel.
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