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Hi, im Aisha.
I live with my parents and siblings.
We are moslims.
As I grew up I was not allowed to go anywhere alone, go to my friends house, go to school alone, etcetera.
I always felt lonely and pressured by what my parents wanted from me.
They want me to get the HIGHEST grades and become a doctor.
They are the nicest but worst parents.
They would buy me everything I want, but I was not allowed to make my own choices.
Even now they never asked me what I want to be when I grow up.
Cuz all they care about is how to make me a doctor and marry me of to a well of husband with a good family.
I know that when I grow up that ill have to marry a man that i dont like and must have children with him since my parents want me to and I will have to give up my career in the end, since women are supposed to learn so that their husbands can show them off, but they are not supposed to worl, since that is not a womens job.
Even when I look at my mom i know that one day ill end up like her.
She studied medicine and became a Child specialist after marying my dad she thought that she could start working as a doctor, but my dad didnt let her and even told her that she was not allowed to drive a car or go ANYWHERE alone.
She was supposed to wear clothing 3 x times her size, since women that are married should only show their shape and bare skin to their husbands and unmarried women should do the same since they should not ruin their reputation. Or else they wont be able to get married later on.
But my dad wears shirt in which u can literally see his niples!!!
Im scared that ill end up like my mom.
Cuz all the women around me also ended up as my mom and the women that worked or wore clothing their size were regarded as shamefull.
I love my religion, but it literally says that if my future husband wants another is wife he can marry another wife. Doesnt that just mean that hes cheating on me and showing it to me!?
And if i the half of my property is of my husband, but i onky get 1/8 from my husbands proporties.
SO WHY!?
I DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED!!
I WANT TO PURSUE MY DREAM AND BECOME A FASHION DESIGNER!!
I WANT TO DRIVE!!
I WANT TO WORK!!!
I WANT FREEDOM!!!
I ... JUST WANT TO BE .... ALIVE AND NOT JUST SOME PUPPET!
I just want everyone including my parents to know that pls just pls for once listen to what women have to say and dont just push us aside.
Respect us like we are also men.
Cuz if we had the choice to choose between being a man or women.
I swear to god that i would have chosen to be a man.
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