Retired From Dating

I tried and I kept an optimistic outlook, but I'm convinced that a lot of these guys are completely unhinged. The amount of emotional labour that has been dumped on me within the last two weeks has been extremely irritating. The amount of insecure guys that really shouldn't be dating. LISTEN! If you're complaining about money as a single man, go and get a second job! Go and try a new career field! When you're buying alcohol, spending money on strippers, buying junk food instead of groceries, buying cigarettes and or weed - there's no complaints!

As a Black woman, I don't discriminate, I accept people as they are and based on how they treat me and vice versa.

I had an Indian guy say to me: "You've been colonized...why would you date a White man?" The way I froze and remained speechless because this was the same guy who just dumped all of his trauma on me about being shamed for having a p*nis. When I asked him why he didn't tell this information to his dad, he remained dismissive and continued talking about the women in his family.

I was completely disgusted with his existence after that atrocious statement! I ended it right there and of course he tried pleading with me and said it was a joke, but I re assured him that he should share that joke openly and see how much of a joke it'll be towards the general public.

There were several guys that took days to respond and said that I was too articulate for them, but then low and behold one of them gets into a car accident and starts blowing up my phone<<<same guy that would literally take days to respond back to one question and or statement. He started bombarding me with all of his accident stuff and I kept thinking to myself - why the fuck is he sharing this with me? Where is his family and his friends? All those pictures with people for his birthday and everything else, but I'm supposed to hold your hand through an accident. Mind you, I've kept things very casual and engaging which he also refused to answer certain questions BASIC QUESTIONS!! Where are you from? How old were you when you came to CANADA?? <<<These questions he didn't answer! His level of arrogance: "I'm the exception to every rule"<<meanwhile the ass needed to buy several vowels in order to respond and this was BEFORE HIS CAR ACCIDENT!

The other guy after I specifically said that I am not ina rush to meet anyone any time soon - asks for my number and then asks me: "Are you available anytime on Sunday to meet and chill?"<<<WHAT??? ARE YOU DEAF, BLIND AND SLOW???

Oh and to add the icing on the cake, one guy deliberately said to me: "Oh I saw your message and I was gonna respond but chose not to. I said, it's okay she can wait for me to say something"<<<so when I gave him the same dish that he served me...GUESS WHO ALSO STARTED BLOWING UP MY PHONE??<<<Sending me several messages on the app

I decided to run with the only guy who wasn't pressuring me. The only guy who actually understood what I meant by, I am not in a rush to meet at all. I don't get why that's hard for people to get when I've made myself very clear. I put it in my profile to not waste people's time. The ongoing lies about: "Oh my phone is acting funny with this app, can we switch to personal numbers."

Don't try and be slick where you take all day to respond to ONE OR TWO text messages and then think that it's enough to suffice meeting in person! Are so many men just completely delayed? When a woman is being direct they still choose to not fucking listen and then they always bitch about things not going their way and or women just using them

Read carefully! I HAVE MY OWN FUCKING PLACE AND I HAVE NO ISSUES PAYING MY RENT! I HAVE MY OWN VEHICLE! ALL OF MY BILLS ARE IN MY NAME!! I HAVE MY OWN CAREER AND I TAKE VERY GOOD CARE OF MYSELF! I EXERCISE! I EAT RIGHT! I GO TO THE DENTIST! I GO TO THE DOCTOR'S! I HAVE MY OWN COUNSELLOR ON SPEED DIAL!! STOP THROWING YOUR DAMN INFECTED D*CK AT WOMEN!! The amount of men who kept bringing up sex and when I challenged them to say, "When's the last time you got tested? Or sure, I'm willing to meet with you if we're getting tested together"<<<crickets and or defense!

I don't need a man because he wants me to need him! I can desire someone but quite frankly, they're doing an amazing job of making themselves unfucking desirable! NOT EVERY WOMAN IS DESPERATE FOR A MAN! At this time - I'm retired from dating. I don't care to ever get married and or have kids. I don't wanna live with any of them and I just don't want them around me at all. Men are very selfish and their expectations of women are so high but they have nothing for themselves. The amount of complaining, whining, bitching, moaning about money, their issues from childhood and or they're bitching about an ex from ten years ago....COMPLETE TURN OFF!

YOU MUTHAFUCKAS NEED TO GET HELP!! GO AND DEAL WITH YOUR MOMMY ISSUES! GO AND GET YOUR MONEY UP! I HATE HOW BIOLOGY ALLOWS MEN TO BE HORNY WHEN THEY HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER A WOMAN AND DON'T EVEN TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES.

Thanks for reading! I appreciate it and if you come under the comments about not all men! LOOK AT THE STATS AND GO DO YOUR DAMN RESEARCH! MORE AND MORE WOMEN ARE CHOOSING TO BE SINGLE BECAUSE IT'S A BETTER DEAL FOR US! LET'S ALSO MENTION HOW MOST OF YOU HAVE INSUFFERABLE ANGER ISSUES AND CAN'T REGULATE YOUR OWN DAMN EMOTIONS BUT ARE CONSIDERED TO BE THE MORE LOGICAL SEX! BULL-FUCKING-SHIT!