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Everyone likes me but only as a friend. I'm trying to accept that I will end up alone all my life, but it's too painful.
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It's normal , you can try to make true and real connections but don't expect it back as there are good and bad people. But if there is one , don't cling onto them either, as they are not yours to have , they possibly are feeling the same to , just put your heart out there but not too much . Good luck
ReplyYou aren't alone in this situation. You shouldn't let it stop you from living your life. Yes it's lonely but you don't know what the future holds. Nothing says you'll be alone your entire life. Ignore what the person said about dont expect it back. there are some good people out there who can be very kind and welcoming it's just a chance you have to take meeting others and making friends. Take care :)
ReplyThe person did say " as there are good and bad people" , try to read
ReplyThere are people who live alone for their lives and are quite happy to do this. What is painful about it?
ReplyIt's a very scary notion, and I completely empathize with you because I'm in the same situation. It's hard to not have someone there for you, especially if everyone else around you has someone. It's a pain that gets to every part of you, right? You wonder what you're doing wrong and how you can change it. You wonder if it's the way you look or talk or act, and you want to change yourself in the hopes of finding that connection, but you also DON'T want to change yourself because you want to be loved and adored just for being you. You wonder how you can give so much love to others and receive so much less in return, and you wonder how much longer you can keep doing it before you give up and refuse to give anyone any kind of love.
But trust me on this one thing: you are not dispensable, and you are worthy of that love, even if it hasn't found you yet. Even if it never finds you, you will still be worthy of it.
ReplyMy love I’m so sorry you’re going through this. But the thing is, even when you feel most alone. When you feel as if you’re the only person to ever go through this, that when you realize there are SO many people that have gone through the same thing. No matter how alone you think you are or as you feel, there are people going through the same thing. The world is just saving your person for you for later. You’ll meet them and you’ll never feel lonely again. I wish you all the best! 🧡
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