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I'll be turning 21 next month and I've never been kissed nor have I had sex before. I had a bf in in highschool years but it didn't go far because he screwed up.
Now I'm having this feeling of wanting to have sex with someone even if it's just a hookup 😔
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Be careful that you don't get pregnant or catch an std.
ReplyYou're going to be awfully disappointed if you waste it on a hookup. You're going to bond very heavily to the first guy while he's already had multiple partners before you. Most guys don't wait that long ago he'll be years ahead of you and will drop you so fast. Dating is a hellscape right now because of hookup culture and the ease of dating apps. Girl, it's not worth it to do it with a hookup. He won't have the patience to be gentle, either. You really should wait until you meet someone who is compatible with your spirit. Please don't break your own heart.
ReplyWell I don't think that's a bad thing. The world makes people think that they have to do something at an early age, because every one is. Just because 13 year olds are being active, doesn't mean your behind or weird. It's always better to wait for someone who cares about you, and will treat you good, and learn with you. Especially in those intimate moments, because that's when you grow with someone. When 2 people join together that way, they become one. 2 bodies, 1 flesh. Its a very intimate and sacred thing, no matter what the world has turned it into. It's your life though, just do whatever makes you happy, and seems like the better, and more sound choice.
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