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I have a really good friend who's single. I think he may have feelings for someone else that I know. I'm jealous of that and I don't understand why, and I wish I wasn't. Let me make this clear - I do not want to date him. Our relationship is 100% platonic and that will never change. I want him to be happy, he deserves the absolute world. So I really should not be this jealous at the thought of him getting into a relationship...
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What should I do?
We started our friendship through online games honestly I'm having fun with her however few years after our friendship became more deeper. She shares her person...
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We started our friendship through online games honestly I'm having fun with her however few years after our friendship became more deeper. She shares her person...
Maybe you are jealous because you aren't in a relationship or a good relationship.
ReplyThat's... actually very very possible. I'm not in a relationship, I would like to be in a relationship, and while I wouldn't date him specifically, some of our intimacy is not unlike what I'd want with someone romantically.
ReplyCorrect. It's probably jealousy over sharing time, not romance. Which, yes he will probably spend more time with his romantic interest, therefore this would be a good time for you to explore a new hobby, or volunteer work, or leisure class, or a sports league. Best of luck.
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ReplyNot to make you seem like an attention hogger but everybody wants a little attention form time to time. Before liking that girl, he probably gave you his time and attention but now it's on someoen else and you're probably subconsciously missing it. It's happened to me before and all you have to do is start giving yourself that attention you need. If that's not sufficeable, then try to talk to someone else as a friend who can give a time of their day. It's what I did and it worked. Jealousy is completely normal in this situation so ur fine.
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