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Where I'm forced to contemplate how badly men have treated me, how my own mother picked her man over her three daughters, comments about my womanhood/femaleness, and whether or not I should just kill myself or acquire animal after animal to feel anything.
I wish I could adopt, but I'd have to worry about the costs, the wait, not being the right demographics, and whether or not me and the kid could bond... or if they'd throw it back in my face that I'm not a real mother, just a legal guardian. Honestly, adoption is just as much human trafficking as surrogacy.... ugh.
Maybe I could just go volunteer with youth... but IDK. I guess I'd still feel empty on the inside.
Any other (not trans) women here the same boat?
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ReplyHappy Mother’s day and Happy Birthday!
ReplyI think it's very special to be adopted.
Why don't you try fostering first?
For you, I would recommend more than one child though. You have a whole lot of love to give pent upside you.
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