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So I met this guy few weeks back, and started talking and getting to know each other. We had a few things in common and talking wasn't awkward. We went to the gym together, walked and studied. It's been a long time since I've talked with a guy "romantically" and I was surprised at how well we clicked. However, yesterday he confessed to me that he had recently broken off with his ex and that the break up was hard. He told me that he wasn't looking for another relationship. He wanted to tell me before but never got the chance to. But his ex the day before texted him, they talked and now they're thinking about getting back together. He still wants to be friends with me. I told him that I couldn't stay as friends and to go no contact. He respected and we said our farewells.
When I read those messages, my stomach dropped, it felt like something was squeezing my heart and chest. It was the first time in awhile that I cried. I wasn't sad over the possibility of us never dating but I was sad at the situation. It feels like I've had zero luck with guys because there is always another girl. For context, I've been in two situation-ships where; 1) The guy can't get over his ex. 2) The guy tells me he loves me and gets into a relationship with another girl the next day. Those situations messed me over and I gave up looking for anyone for two years only for it to happen again.
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