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Okay, so lately there's been a rumor going around about me and my guy best friend.
So basically, we do everything together, and we are always together. He's in a lot of my classes, and most of my girl friends aren't. So naturally we would always be together and grow close. Now, everyone thinks we have crushes on each other. About a year ago I had a crush on him for a short period of time, but that's long gone.
I can see how everyone says these things about us because we hug and sit next to each other and occasionally hold hands. I know he doesn't like me because he has a crush on this other girl I don't really know, and I don't like him because I have a crush on this boy he's friends with. My relationship with him is a great, solid friendship and I don't want it to get crushed by rumors.
Just this week, I've been asked about it more times than I can count. This is really annoying, and makes both me and him uncomfortable. Just because we're best friends of opposite genders does not mean we are automatically in love.
Any thoughts?
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It looks like this is another case of people not minding their own business. Stop holding hands and maybe these rumours will die down. Tell nosy people that you actually like someone else and then when they ask "Who?" Tell them it is none of their concern.
Replyeveryone is just hating on y'all. for women and men to be friends takes an elevated level of maturity that many people do not ever grow to because many believe in only romantic love. you guys have friend love and that is awesome. hope you guys end up playing bingo together in the future
ReplyYeah. Idk. I think this lies less in peoples beliefs that men and women can't be friends and more in the fact that you are holding hands and hugging. I've had multiple guy friends at different points in my life. Never have I held hands with one of them. And very rarely have I hugged them. We're talking only when I won't see them for years or they are going through a difficult life moment (like a family death). Not to mention most female friends don't even hold hands on a regular basis.
Idk. Just my thought: he wouldn't be okay with that if there wasn't at least a little bit of hope that you two would get together. And considering you've had a crush on him before, I think you feel the same way.
But hey, I'm just a stranger on the internet. I don't know anything about either of you so don't let me mess with your head. If your just friends then just be friends.
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