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I don’t stay with my in-laws, we stay in different cities. But they do keep visiting.
Though it is just some months past my marriage , I have started disliking my MIL .
It is not that I had negative feelings for her previously, because I actually wanted to have a good bond with her .
But it is her interference and unnecessary inclusion into my privacy,which has made me dislike her .
She literally wants to direct how I should live life . She even wants me to change my eating habits as per her guidance.
And she does all these by speaking very sweetly and my husband thinks that she is actually wishing good for me .
But my inner self says she is actually manipulating me to behave and stay just like she wants .
And because my husband is a good son , he gets manipulated easily by his mom’s words .
I am feeling extremely suffocated. I don’t know what should I do ? I constantly feel someday she will brainwash my husband. I don’t like my husband supporting her for everything in a bias way . Please help me with sone suggestions. I am feeling stuck and anxious. I am just 5 months into my marriage.
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ReplyThank her for her advice and tell her that you will do things your way every time she tells you to do something. She will probably complain to her son and you can tell him that when she actually gives you helpful advice you will take notice.
ReplyPerfect time to set boundaries... in conversation mention that you love the relationship you both are forming and you love all the advice that she gives you ... we appreciate it so much that you are willing to implement some things that would be positive in your life but you fear that if she ever gives you advice and you don't take it it could interfere between your relationship and because you love her so much and you love her son so much you just wanted to bring it up in conversation so that you can avoid the situation.
Best of luck X
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