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My bf says ive gotten "too controlling". I dont even do anything that is controlling? I only want to spend more time with him.
He lied to me last night, said he was going to bed but was with his friends. I found out and confronted him because he lied to me. Told me "i said i was going to bed because you've gotten too controlling, as much as i love to spend time with you i have to spend time with others, because if i spend time with one person only i'll go insane".
I pushed away all of my friends and family for him. Just to spend more time with him. He is literally the only person im close to, literally the only person i have.
"if i spend time with one person only ill go insane" That is what ive been doing no?
Dont know what to do. It hurt my feelings. I'm thinking of distancing myself from him.
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It makes sense that you feel so strongly towards him. But you both need a bit more balanced social lives.
ReplyGirls brains and guys brains are wired differently. If you want to stay with him let him spend time with his friends. Why would you push away all of your family and friends to spend more time with him? You have to both spend time with other people. Get your family and friends back so that you aren't only being with him. You have a lot to learn where it comes to relationships.
ReplyMy wife made me cut ties with all my friends, has curfews for showering, watches nearly everything I do, does random inspections of me, monitors who I talk to, and is fiercely protective of me. She is sweet, and I know she is scared to lose me. I was already used to being alone, grew up a captive most of my life in emotionally unhealthy family situations. If it helps, making more time for exploring interests together may help.
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