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Hello there! I hope you are doing well. I wanted to share some thoughts on relationships. First, ask yourself if you would want your loved ones to feel lost or hurt in a relationship. If not, why would you allow yourself to endure the same? While it's natural to care for and love someone, it's important to prioritize your well-being too. Remember that there are better options than being with someone who mistreats you.
Secondly, think back to the time before you were in a relationship. Were you content without the constant communication? Could you go without them for a while? It's likely that you were fine on your own. So, why convince yourself that you can't let go of them now? It's okay to put yourself first sometimes. If you choose to move on, remember that there are other possibilities.
I went through a similar experience with my ex-partner. Initially, I was independent, but as our relationship progressed, I became overly reliant on him. After we separated, I felt lost and thought I'd never love again. However, with time, I healed and realised that I could be okay on my own. You too can find hope and love again. Remember that you've done it once, and you can do it again.
Consider the process as three stages: grieving, acceptance, and metamorphosis. Release all your emotions, accept the situation, and then focus on loving and reinventing yourself.
You can do this, and you will be alright. Take care, lovelies ♡.
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I did this too and am quite happy to be with only my dog.
ReplyThank you for this message... It's hard to move on but it is better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone... I hope someday i'll be okay again🙂
ReplyThanks for sharing; I truly hope many are inspired.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus, when we change our minds and our actions.
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