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I never thought id be writing about this, i never even thought i would be in the situation that im in. I dont know what or who i am, everything is confusing and i know its because im still growing up but for gods sake why is it this stressful??? Since i was about 11 ive wanted to be a man, and not only for the body and looks but loving a woman as a man seemed so amazing to me and i just wished i could experience that so bad. For a while i assumed it was just gender envy and blew it off as such, but the feelings have been getting stronger especially because of the people im around being openly transphobic it makes me so upset whenever they say stuff like "i could never be friends with a trans person" and "you cant switch your gender youre either a boy or girl", and while the second statement yeah i could get by the first one just broke my heart. And maybe i want to be a man because of my trauma, or maybe its because im not attractive for being a woman especially at my age?? Ive had lots of problems with my body image, its made me so depressed before where i rotted in my room for days but kept myself awake without eating a thing. I blamed my abuser for "fattening me up" and had so much rage towards him for that. My posture is atrocious apparently and i dont even know if its a joke anymore. And i know all my friends would like it better if i was a guy because ive asked them straight up, and with the answers they gave i know i would be treated so much better. I want advice, anything, i really need answers
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if you know in your heart, then you are. the things around you can change, no matter who you are or what you are. thats life. your reasoning doesn't have to be sound, and sometimes your reasoning can change. but no matter what happens, if you want to be a man, you are a man.
ReplyYou can't always be what you want to be. Stop lying. I'm old, I want to be young. Can I be young because I want to be ? Obviously not. Some things in life are fixed.
ReplyThere's no such thing as trans. It's made up. You are what you are. It's already decided by Nature and it cannot be changed.
ReplyYou are valid. Don't listen to those two comments, please. You are so strong for going through this and I love you for being able to share this with us. Also, you don't have to label yourself. If being a man makes you happy and euphoric, you can be a man.
Gender is not something you change, it's something you're born with. Sex you cannot change. I don't get the ignorance of people who say differently. If you feel like a man, you were always a man, no matter what your genitals are.
And please, don't listen to the people in your life who say that you are a bad person for that, because you aren't. They are bigots, there is nothing wrong with you for just existing. There is so much homophobia and trans phobia in the world, but you'll always find people who support you if you just keep moving. I support you and am rooting for you, no matter what. I might just be a person online, but your strength is amazing. You don't have to waste your time on dumbasses in comment sections. They're trolls that you shouldn't waste your time on.
Even though pride month is over, I want you to believe that you are always valid, no matter what anyone says. Believe me, I've delt with a whole lot of homophobia in my life because I am pansexual. I hope everything goes well!!
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