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Partner A's love language is acts of service.
Partner B's love language is touch.
If Partner A does chores like cooking, dishes, and laundry for partner B, are they expressing love? Is this effort to make them feel love? Particularly if they were young and didn't know their love languages.
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ReplyIn a way but partner A is basically doing chores that needs done too.
There's not enough information about partner B. But touch is a part of love.
They both need a good long talk with eachother about what they want. Hypothetical or not.
Reply~20 years in a happy marriage with the same dynamic. Married from 19 to present (38) so we have lived our entire adult lives together. It depends on the reason behind the chores. Those sounds like routine household things. However, if partner A makes it known that they are doing it out of love, then that's different. For example, when my husband wants to do something out of love, he'll pair the chore with, "I wanted to make sure you had time to relax after work so I finished up the laundry for you." Or, "I noticed you needed an oil change so I went ahead and took your car down to the shop." He usually draws attention to it. Everyday stuff, no. He'll do the dishes and stuff but only because it needed to be done. He calls attention to his acts of service so I can praise him and return his gesture with my own love language (touch), which is a big hug/kiss/clingy affection.
ReplyIf partner B wants to touch, they had better start baking some cookies
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