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So, (I need some stories) has anyone else in the LGBTQ+ community ever had to re-come out? Like three months ago I came out as bisexual but I did a little more research two months later and found out that I was using the wrong label all along. It turned out my correct label was little known, omnisexual! So, I re-came out as omni to my friends and it was honestly kind of embarrassing cause I was sooo confident and proud in my sexuality before, and I just felt weird saying, "GUYS, I WAS WRONG."
But, yeah, anyone else had to do something like this?
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Why give yourself a label? Just be yourself.
ReplyOh, labeling myself isn't a bad thing, if that's what you thought. And in a way, it makes me feel unique anyway.
ReplyEven though I identify as being "LGBT" whatever, I literally do not see the point in "coming out" as whatever.
Just choose one person who you like and don't cheat on them. It's not complicated. Humans don't need to be rabbits. There's one person out there who wants your love. Find them and focus on that without giving yourself a label, because then it's about being slutty and not finding love.
Focus on love.
ReplyOp here: Well, giving myself a label is what I use to identify with. It's quicker and easier to tell people and I don't have to explain much to them. But labeling also makes me feel like I'm part of a community and to feel more accepted, amidst the amount of hate I get on a daily basis. I get to know that people who identify with my sexuality are going through the same thing as me.
And, yeah. I don't really get the point of "coming out" either, but I feel like it's just a societal norm that a lot of people in the community have to do. And I have a partner, and I don't get your point that people who do label themselves are being "slutty". I have found my love, I just made a little post looking for people who have shared this experience of finding the wrong label, I don't see what's wrong with that???
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