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Why is everyone on Novni so snappy? Like, this is not helping with anyone's mental health. If you have a slight disagreement on something and one person is trying to understand your side of the debate in the comments, don't be sarcastic and a smart-ass.
Everyone is just so salty and there's so much tension. That's why I try not to comment on a post that I don't agree with, or don't understand. Because I'll try to be as kind as possible, and somebody is going to try to make a fight out of it.
One time on a post (about something unrelated - I needed help with a project) I mentioned how I was on my period and how it made everything I was working on harder, because I was more likely to be annoyed. And some guy started talking about how women are always trying to blame their periods for everything, and how dramatic they were. He said that he didn't think that they could be bad. I responded that it made doing my art project harder, because I was easily agitated.
Stuff like this happens all the time. A lot of times in comment sections that aren't even mine. People just hate each other for no fucking reason.
This is supposed to be a safe space for EVERYONE. If you don't agree with someone, you have the power to just scroll away. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
God, this is common sense guys. I'm leaving Novni for a little while. Remember, you don't have to insert your opinion on everything.
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DUDE PEOPLE ARE SO RUTHLESS ON HERE LIKE I THOUGHT THIS WAS FOR RELEASING STRESS NOT CAUSING MORE 😭
ReplyI know. I feel you. Most people used to be kind and uplifting on here (I still try to be anyway). Then it went toalot of childish people trolling to make others mad. I know the site has moderation but people still don't have to be mean. Like I've came here many times my mental health was a dumpster fire and people's negativity sure didn't help it anyway. Exactly like you said and I've posted it before if you can't say anything positive helpful or uplifting don't say anything at all. Have a good day friend :)
ReplyHow do you know the person was male? I've criticised women for making an issue about their periods and I'm female.
ReplyHe just said it like he had never had a period in his life, and that he had assumed that they weren't bad. Also, please don't criticize people about their periods. If they start talking about, for example, their cramps. If they say, "it's hard to get out of bed in the morning and I can't do much around the house"
You shouldn't look at them and say something like, "Well, that's not the same for me, my periods aren't that bad." Because everyone's cycle is different and their pain tolerance is also varying. Please do not invalidate others. Talking about how they are miserable on their periods isn't "making and issue about their periods". As women, we're all in this together and should help each other, and not bring other women down because they have a different kind of period than you.
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