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This man who is in committed relationship for few years but also doing FWB with few other girl at the same time while claiming to be so called single and only using them for physical but still loves his girlfriend. But when his FWB get pregnant he help them to meet Doctor to do pill abortion. He planned to sleep around until he gets married while on committed relationship and will stay loyal the woman he married and won’t be sleeping around after that anymore. What kind of man is he? Is he a pervert? Is he playboy because of dysfunctional family? Is it okay to marry this type of guy? Can they be a good husband? Can they actually live someone? Is he good man ? It’s like whole generation filled with this type of man now…
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What’s a different way I can view this?
Same as the rest in this comment section, I also hate my biological body. It’s the biggest inconvenience and I’m so over it. I’ve wished I was dead plenty...
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I am so confused.
Normally, i would be happy when people doesnt point out i have been crying, but when my own dad does so for almost 4 years? It genuinly begins to hurt, especial...
Honestly, that's the in thing anymore. A lot of people do that stuff. I was surprised too when I found out it's like that. So I really don't know.
ReplyI already told you that he's not marriage material and to avoid him. Why is this posted again?
ReplyWhat is your problem? You gave like super short comment. I was looking for someone who could elaborate further on this. Why are you getting triggered? You could have just ignored the post.
Replywhy think about it morally or word it black or white, good and bad? if you have to ask doesn't that answer the question. and still, even if he is a good man why does it matter? because it bothers you.
if these things you mentioned are not equated to bad, why ask if he's good? why need to question it? also, people are not definite just habitual, it's harder for grown people to change because they don't come across frequently changing lifestyles.
I think I'm missing the point because I know good people in my life but find them annoying so like does it really matter if they're good if you have a problem with them?
ReplyBecause it’s hard to digest the fact they can do good things on other aspect in life and yet can be so shady and deceitful at the same time. It’s really shocking to see that they can live with no guilt or shame…how can they live like this peacefully after ruining other people’s life?
ReplyA committed relationship consists of mutual trust, mutual respect and mutual love. IF she is not aware of his shenanigans - than he is living a lie, which is not "good". But IF she is aware of his shenanigans and she is ok with his shenanigans, then he is a lustful man who does not care about the consequences of participating in debauchery, which by design are STDs, unplanned pregnancies, and feeling of emptiness, among other negative effects. This is also not "good".
In my humble opinion, he's lost, but almost everyone has "good" in them, and that's the hope.
Hopefully he changes his mind and his actions about using women for pleasure.
I hope this helps.
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1 Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
Mark 12:28-31
And Christ Jesus said the 2 greatest commandments are:
Love God first and foremost.
Love your fellow-being as you love yourself.
From following or not following these, all good or evil cascades, respectively.
Love...that powerful, invisible, intangible force that cannot be denied; even atheists live and die by it.
Luke 2:29-32
Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you may now dismiss your servant in peace. For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all nations. A light for revelation to the Gentiles, and the glory of your people Israel.
Mary, Mother of Christ, intercede for us with your prayers, now, and always.
And after our worst deeds - never forget God forgives us when we repent through Christ Jesus, when we change our minds and our actions.
ReplyPeople say that "before marriage however you were, doesn't matter but after marriage does."
I would say the same but sometimes you never know how he will be after marrying you. He will either be an asshole and continue to do what he is good at, cheat you and make you feel guilty or he will change for good.
You know him better than anyone commenting here so take your decision wisely.
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