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As moms we're told selfless, unwithering and unconditional love are the mandatory standard. And if you don't enjoy it your a demon, u have PPD, your crazy. But guess what I've come to terms I don't like wiping another person's ass, I don't have to like being woken up every 3hrs to fix a pacifier, I don't have to find great joy in talking to a drooling little person, or repetitively going over 10 numbers, or like Elmo's high pitch voice! Im not a inhumane mutant :) I just don't like infancy, hell I might still not like him when he's older lol! -sure I don't want to go out and party after he finally gets to sleep but gosh darnit being a mom is tiring! We just got off a 8hr work schedule (be it school or work) in order to slave a 24hr on-call life, bullshit you won't be tired and a little hella stressed. I know the pain, I know the regret, I won't lie being a mom is not buttercups and sunshines, babies can be needy dicks, and yes they can be lazy and spoiled!!!!!!!!-boom reality dose. I know because my baby was, I cut the bullshit. I was stressed and no one got me so I said to him "I'm going to show you how to be a functional little person." That was at his 3month birthday...now? My baby is the god of babies XDDD *jk* I'm just here to say mom's aren't satan for not liking the hardships of parenting, your not crazy! *I guess for me I took parenting to biology class...dork I know...but babies learn from their parents what's accepted and not, how life is in general. You don't need to love servatude, you just keep "moming". -Aye like I said I may never like my baby, I do what I must...Shit compare my baby to other parents babies mines is a godsent. We understand eachother he knows he'll get taken care of he doesn't need to cry cause mom's got it sorted out. He's 4months old. Don't let anyone say your abnormal or how it's supposed to be. Cause look we flipped the script on those mfers! :3 So fuck it. If your a good parent you don't have to like wiping ass and puke, your free to emotions too! ;) and don't be scared to be a good example for your kids because snooty moms say you need to spoil ur baby >> you need to raise em not like em..maybe you'll like them when their older *maybe >> lol
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