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Hi! First of all, english is not my first language so if you see some problems in my writing please don’t be mad :)
I’m writing there because my friends only put oil on my fire, and they are my friends so of corse they do.
Anyway, that’s the story.
I’m a girl in my early 20s and I started recently going to the gym in my town. I know 0 stuff about fitness, but the people working there are really kind and everyone is friendly so ok.
I only started because I want to feel confident the next year going at the beach and not constantly watch my belly + I want to develop muscles. So NOTHING to do about “meeting new people” ok? I just wanted to feel better and more beautiful to me.
It’s a month now that I’m there, and there’s a personal who I find cute and kind. Just to let you know, I don’t have plans where I’m followed in and out the gym, like the gym where I go gives to all the members that want a schedule based on them, but then I can do wherever I want. So it’s not that he is my personal or something.
Now, I don’t want to build castles in my mind, because I know I’m just a customer and it’s his job to look after me, but I really don’t know how to read him? Like even if there are other people, or even other girls our age~, he comes to talk to me. He asks how I feel and how’s work. He even tried to make me feel better because I was down after a bad work day. He asked where I go out usually in our town and the next time we saw he said “oh I didn’t see you there this weekend”.
Like I said, I don’t want to think to much into this because I feel like it’s his job and he is just being super friendly, but at the same time I feel so embarrassed and happy when I see he is working when I walk in. He even helps me without me asking, he just looks at me, something that his coworkers don’t, I just normally go to them and ask for stuff.
I feel like he can make a good friend, but I really feel shy even talking about it. Because like, I don’t really know, 1) It’s his job. 2) he is an athletic guy and can see so many athletic girls, I started to workout this month so Im not exactly a muscular shape.
what do you think?
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