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People say I'm a very negative person I try not to be... I try to be positive I try to laugh and have fun but I go back to my old ways all the time and idk why... My boyfriend has told me many times that I'm negative and mean at times.. I think he's waiting for me to change but sometimes I feel like I can't change like I'm stuck with this mindset... I sometimes wonder how did I get here why am I like this...
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Congratulations on having a boyfriend! But yeah you can change, humans can change at any time even when we don't think they will but they can. Break down the change into smaller pieces and work on one thing at a time. Try to be more rational about the negativity, if it makes sense and you explain it in a good way then it's not as bad. And for the smaller negative things think to yourself if it is really as bad and worth complaining about as you think it is.
ReplyThank you so much for the response I 100% appreciate it... I think that's one of my biggest problems is I sometimes complain about things that aren't really important idk how to get away from at times and I feel so overwhelmed it spills over on the person I talk to the most
Replywell, all human have positive and negative sides. 1 negative things cant make u being judge to be a negative person. and negative things usually activated by certain reason. you have to find it and avoid it first. then, u can start activating the positive ones.
try to understand yourself and goodluck
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