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I feel useless.
Today I asked my partner if we could go shopping for food soon. I'm quite tired of having only one meal a day because we haven't gone shopping in three weeks. He gets three meals a day due to being able to eat breakfast and lunch at work.
And he just had to make the comment that he "Deserves three meals because he works."
It really hurt my feeling. I can't work because I can't drive... And I can't even go shopping on my own because I can't drive. (I'm learning now and going to take classes soon if things line up but that doesn't help me right now.)
Him saying these kind of comments really messed with me. I know I'll just convince myself that I don't deserve to eat because I don't work.
I can't even talk to him about it because he'll get upset that I'm upset. So it'll just switch around to me having to comfort him and ignore my issue entirely.
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it´s for the best that you work on your own independace, because what your parter does ansdsays is abusive: thinking that because you don´t work you don´t deserve to eat is inhumane and it shows that he likes having that kind of power over you and that could lead to a very unhealthy or downright awful situation. Try to reach to your closest lines of support (friends, family, or I don´t know if there is any organization near you like a communal center that is connected to social services) just in case things get worse. Wish you the best
ReplyWhat does he think breakfast , lunch, and dinner means? That's three meals a day.
ReplyWhy are you with an abusive partner? Leave him.
ReplyYou are supposed to feel good in a relationship. If you don't, why are you in that relationship?
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