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Where do I start... I am a 21 year old, Female who has found herself with the feeling of being stuck.
Growing up... I started to notice that A. the house I live in wasn't like anybody else's. We would be having take-away food almost every night & when my mum would cook, you could tell it hadn't been made with love(example, she would cook Spaghetti Bolognese in the microwave)🤮. We had outdated furniture, carpets wallpaper... lots of things needed TLC but the biggest red flag was the fact that my mum was a hoarder. she would constantly be in the charity shops/boot fairs buying CRAP, She would buy kids clothes or toys or (I am the youngest sibling and I was about 13/14 at the time)anything really! those items would pile up in any corner of the house. This is still ongoing to this day! its just changed to AVON!! as she's now an AVON rep!!
& B. The people I live with are VERY dysfunctional.. as mentioned my family would never have any home cooked meals. My mum is notorious for being late... she would make me late for school everyday, just all round unreliable!!! No one in my household does chores, it's down to me to load & unload dishwasher, put laundry on/out, cook dinner, tidy the house, clean the surfaces , take out the bins. I do EVERYTHING while my mum sits in her chair, playing games on her phone or watching TV.
We recently lost my Dad to Cancer which means issues we were already facing with my mum has worsened! She's more lazy than ever!
There is a lot more I could say... but I will be here all day listing the things wrong with my life... Overall, I feel like I definitely shouldn't be the one telling my GROWN ASS MOTHER to clean up after herself & to do housework while she sits on her ARSE playing games. I constantly cry at the fact that I have a dysfunctional, Lazy mother as the burden is always on my shoulders & affects all aspects of my life.
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I think you're mom is not lazy, because if she is you won't have any money for food or for your daily needs. You mentioned that you recently lost your dad and I think that's your mom's way to cope up in losing your dad. She may be suffering from depression and that's not laziness. People who suffer from depression tend to not do anything at all, sometime we just stay in our room or just sleep the whole day. Have you tried talking to your mom? Maybe you can talk to her and try to ask if she's okay or how's her day. These simple question goes a long way for people who just lost their partner in life. I hope this helps. Cheer up.
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