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my relationship with my boyfriend was of six years and he was my best friend too or i can say that he was my only friend...and last week i discovered that he has been cheating on me for 3 months.and for that last one week i was in such a pain that i just couldn't feel like breathing and living..i was so shocked because never in my scariest dreams i have imagined that..it was like things around me are just moving so fast and i am just standing on that one place where i confronted him. in that one week he said that he cant be in a relationship with any person now and that he will not talk to that girl also.i mean he very well knew this that what he was for me , i have discussed each and everything with him, i didn't make friends with anybody because he was there..he also said that we can be friends and now should concentrate on our futures, i mean how can he when he knows that i was planning to do something with him to have a better future...seriously i wanted to marry him someday ...and yesterday i asked him directly that does he want me or not, that i want a straight answer now because i cant spend my life like this in so much pain thinking how will i survive without him . and he said yes that he wants to spend his life with me , i was happy as i literally begged in front of god for him...and now i don't know why but i feel that maybe nothing will be like before..i think that i might move back to my depression state.why is this happening ?? what should i do , i am really confused that should i trust him or not ?
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ofc things will never be the same, he cheated and if you plan on staying with him though that then you need to be 100% over it because if you are not it will always be at the back of your mind. you will always question his trust and his love (like you are now) 6 years is a long time, you need to ask him the 'why u did it' question... and dont take the 'i dont know' answer. You need to figure out if his reasons for cheating (after being together for that long) was something that can be fix or if it can be worked though, because if not he'll end up cheating on you again and he would assume that you would just stay with him because you did the first time.so you as a young woman need to know your worth and if he doesnt treat you the way u know u should be treated then you need to figure out if that is what you really want in a future husband.hope this helps...
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