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When you feel like your family sets you apart from them, the stress, the pressure is all around me. They made me feel useless and made me feel like i'm a nobody. I'm the eldest son by the way which makes it feel a lot more pressure.
I'm currently finishing my masters studies and on my way to finish it this year. I'm the only one in the family who is able to manage well by myself, earn quite an income for myself. My father retired from his work because all of us we're able to finish our college studies. My mother works at home, my sister works at a hospital as a nurse with very low income so she cannot help with the expenses, my brother is still waiting for a call from work while my younger sister also a nurse and is still waiting for work to call her. Making a point that i/m the only one who is able to provide for the family. Some of them tried to pressure me indirectly by letting me feel what they feel about a problem or situation regarding money. They don't understand that i too have plans and have something for myself in the future. Surely they would understand that, i think i have given enough money for them and even be of service to them for more than years of working in a store which my family owns and i never did raise my voice of being tired while working and at the same time studying. Another thing is that just lately they made me feel like i'm no longer part of the family, the fact that i gave a lot to them and even let me feel like i'm no longer part of the family makes me like I've been used merely as a tool not as a son. They start to get moody when they have no money and tends to pressure me, made me feel like it's my fault why the situation turned out to be like that.
I'm already tired and almost about to give up on them. I'm just waiting for an opportunity for me to work far from them. So that they may be able to realize my value for being there for them for almost 18 years and for serving them. My siblings we're not able to understand this because they studied far from home.
I'm tired i really am...I need help...Someone :-(
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okay I just got done from reading your feelings towards your family. so think like this they need you , you don't need them. this what you should said to them look guys , I cant be giving yall money cause all yall see is the money not me once yall stop using me for my money my money that I work hard for that's when im going to think about giving money that you need not what you want only for needs.
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