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Basically, there's a boy who used to go to my school (actually, he may still go there, but he like NEVER came to class even when I knew for sure he did, so I'm not really sure), who I REALLY, REALLY LIKE!
I added him on Facebook (and to my surprise, he accepted!) and he quickly started sharing literally EVERY SINGLE ONE of my posts (like memes and stuff xD) and he even commented on a picture of my cat (I had said "how is my cat hotter than me" and he said "naturally cats are hotter than humans") I know that's pretty stupid lol and definitely not a sign that he likes me in any way, but I still thought it was pretty funny.
The problem is, I'm pretty sure he broke up with his girlfriend this Monday (they don't like or comment on each other's pictures anymore, and he doesn't post cute things on her Facebook wall anymore, when he used to do that all the time), and recently, he's been posting/sharing a lot of things about being heartbroken, and his Facebook profile says he is single.
Well, I wanted to talk to him, but I don't know how :\\
The problem is, me and him both have anxiety disorder, and he has depression (I found out from one of our mutual friends) and that he is afraid of rejection (which I am, as well), which means it's not likely that he will message me first. So it's hard to say if he likes me or not (I'm not quite sure why he would).
Another thing is, his ex girlfriend was really pretty, and I feel like he'll accept no less than that.
I'm looking for a way to get his attention, that isn't going to scare him off, or make him think I'm a creep.
I'm also too scared to say "hey" because I've tried that before on different guys, and they never answer (they'll either leave me on "read" or they'll just ignore the message).
Besides us being very similar in style, music taste, and humor, I think he's pretty cute, and would love to talk to him.
Does anyone have any advice? Also, from my description, does it sound like he and his girlfriend are still together? Thanks for any helpful advice ^-^
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I'll share with you my story when I was in highschool, and I'll leave it up to you to decide.The last semester of my highschool years I was in an Arts class, and a girl I was really attracted to sat directly infront of me, her left side was facing me.I knew her friend Charlie, didn't know her personally, but in the first Art class, I was thinking in my head to say "Hey, are you friends with Charlie? He's a cool guy, my name is so'n'so"But I didn't say a damn thing. Throughout the semester I was pretty silent, not talking to her...One day, it was Valentines day, I thought to myself "OK I'LL TALK TO HER THIS TIME!!! I'll say: 'Happy Valentines Day'"I thought it was an awesome plan. So I came into class, her face was flat on the desk, apparently she was having a bad day, and I got nervous because that wasn't what I expected, so I mumbled "Happy Valentines Day.." and she said "Huh..okay."And that's it! Just thinking about it makes me cringe. Throughout the semester it was mostly idle, but it was just me staring at her and her beautiful ass everytime she got up! GODDAM! One morning I was sooo horny in class, I asked the teacher if I could go to the bathroom, and I just went to the bathroom jack off. Oh man! Good times..(not really)Looking back, I could've just said the first thing that came to my head on the first day of class, I didn't need this fucking elaborate plan.Better yet...in hindsight with a lot of girls in highschool...I could have just said... "Hi"That's all we ever needed imaright?My only advice to you and to my younger self is this: "All you ever needed to say is Hi. That's all everyone wishes for. 'I wish he/she would just say hi to me.'And the most important thing, BREATHE."That's it, remember to breathe sweetheart :)
ReplyI agree with this comment entirely. I waited too long also and by the time I managed to get the courage it was too late.Just go and talk to him, the more you overthink this the less chance it will work. Simple is what you need to do.
Replysay hey. i know you're scared. i know youve tried before. but say hey. i was scared as well to say to hey to the guy i like, but it sas the best thing i couldve ever done. we talk a lot via internet. we've basically become best friends all because i said hey.and plus, i dont think he'll reject you. he seems to like you. and from what i can tell, he's broken up with his girlfriend. dont make a move just as yet, (especially considering you fear rejection) because he might stil be trying to get over his girlfriend.but, please....say hey.
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