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Okay so while me and my friends were riding on the bus home somehow someone starting talking about bdsm.
Of course I'm the one who has to explain what it is to the people who don't know.
I say it's what would happen if a masochist and a sadist got together.
I also explained that a masochist is someone who likes pain and a sadist is someone who likes giving pain.
In the end everyone was talking about how gross it is and I sit here thinking how I am a masochist and somewhat of a sadist as well.
I don't know if I should tell them that or not.
They already don't like me.
I just need a bit of advice.
Ask questions as well if you want.
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Replyif they don't like you than maybe you should make some new friends, find someone with the same problem as you and befriend them. I would wait on telling them yet, listen and observe them to see if you can trust them, give them small tests if in doubt. just tell someone you can trust who will not make a big deal out of it, and who can perhaps help you. Shadow
ReplyDoesn't sound like they are ready to hear it. Telling them would probably just mean pain (and not the "good" kind) for you.
Just keep dropping things into conversation about how everyone is different. Everyone likes different things. Something is only 'gross' if both parties don't agree. Little things so that one day they will be ready to hear it if it's important to you to tell them.
Educate them as much as your energy will allow, but in the end, look after yourself first.
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