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Me and my ex broke up a 9 months ago and It was pretty rough for me but she seemed fine, We blocked each other on everything besides Snapchat because my phone was broken and never got around to it. I thought she would have done it but she never did. A couple months ago while in a drunken rage I said some terrible things to a mate who i thought wouldn't say anything, expecting him to understand I was in pain and so drunk that I had no idea what I was doing. She unblocked me and abused me, which in fairness I deserved, saying she hates me and asking if I did really love her and if I did stop drinking and smoking when we was together just stuff like that. After a few messages I ignored her and thought noting more of it till i got a voice message of her singing, which I also ignored. After that there was nothing I blocked her just so i didn't end up doing something stupid while drunk. After all that I brought a new phone and got Snapchat back as you would and posted stories of me in them expecting her to block me but she didn't. (yeah I should have done it myself but I wanted to see if she would realise and cut any sort of idea of me.) Lately over the past 2/3 months I get Snapchats from her every couple days or a weeks. Snapchats of her been proud of herself going good at school and posts it to her story and send it to everyone she has as a friend. But every now and then I receive one of her all upset asking for someone to talk to her, just depressing things but never adds it to her story and to lot less people. Now what gets me is that she is very very smart and I doubt she would forget about me cause she used to talk about ex's (bad things) that she had years ago before me. lately I've started to think it to try and gain my attention but I just shrug it off and carry on day to day without thinking about it till I get another Snapchat from her. If it is to get my attention why would she? she said she hates me and he whole family thinks I'm a moron and her friends don't like me as you'd expect when you break up with there friend. I'm not sure if it is an attention thing or not. I've been wanting to message her asking if she's doing it on purpose but I never do cause I don't know how to start a convo with her knowing that it might lead to a fight and I'd rather avoid conflict and leave her be and not stress her out when I know she's got a lot of it already and so i can keep continuing to live a happy life. She could be trying to see if I'm over her and probably wants to see if I've turned my life around which I have.
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Hi just thinking maybe if you did talk to her and ask if she is but if it starts to lead into a fight then just tell her that you would like it if she blocked you off snapchat if she really isnt doing it on purpose but whatever you do dont fight back with her the best you can do is ignore her.
ReplyI would suggest to just be honest and ask her politely what her motives are. Not in a rude way, maybe just ask how she's doing and what's really on her mind. Maybe ask if there's a specific reason why she wants to talk to you even though you guys have a past? If she's serious about needing someone to talk to, then she'll be honest and answer these questions.
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