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Okay so I've been with my boyfriend (now known as bf) for 5 years. He's got 2 kids that's have been around pretty much every week or every other week a 5 year old (now known as 5) and a 7 year old ( now known as 7). He also has a son from a different woman who is 9 (now known as 9) and a step daughter from 5&7's mom.
So the boys have been with us full time since October and I mean it's been great. their mom just dropped them off on our door step on day and said she couldn't do it right now. Anyways now she comes every month or so and wants to take them somewhere fun. Must be nice to be a fun-when-she-has-the-time mom. It drives me crazy. I've put so much time and love into these boys and she thinks 'when she's ready' she gets them again which is true because the justice system for mothers is completely different then if it was a father that did this to the children.
Anyways. My bf and I have been having lets just say romantic issues. We live with my dad right now, so I mean I feel awkward if we do anything sexual. We have been here for 2 years now so we have had VERY little romance. I almost don't even feel I want it at all ever. My bf seems to get upset and thinks I'm rejecting him which is not the case. I just don't feel anything. I also have gained 130lbs since we first hooked up so now I just feel gross and ugly.
I do have very low confidence and look at myself as disgusting. I've tried diets, I have a gym membership but have had no energy to go since December it's now February. Ugh I feel so low and depressed.
I do not know how this site even works so I guess I will stop there. Thanks for listening!
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the best advice i could maybe give for this situation as a guy would be, if romance isnt around naturally try to make some small romance of your own. because atm ur boyfriend loves you no matter how u feel about urself. see if maybe the two of u can set sometime together alone if u can get a full day to urselves and its to uncomfortable at home maybe find a cheap place to stay the night light some candles drink a lil, and just have fun. this wouldnt be good for a long term solution but it will at least make things feel better for a time. you wont truly feel better i think until u and ur bf live on ur own with ur family
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