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For as long as I can remember, I've told myself I would never cry over a boy. I've had confidence in myself, just always thinking "no boy is good enough to make me cry." I've also always known I am good enough and that I'm pretty enough, smart enough, and I've learned to love myself. This year, though, that feeling of loving myself is gone. The confidence I've always had is also gone. And, the belief that I would never cry over a boy, that's gone too. Because as I sit here typing this, I'm sitting in my bathroom floor crying, looking into the mirror, and wondering what I did wrong. Thinking to myself "I'm really not good enough. I'm not pretty, not smart, and my personality isn't even enough. I'm just not enough." I keep trying to tell myself "it'll be ok, God has a plan for you. This person just isn't in the plan." But as I tell myself that, I find it hard to think of it that way. The only thing I'm thinking is what's so wrong with me, because every boy I've ever liked hasn't liked me back. So I can't help but wonder what I need to do to change myself. normally, I write on this page to give others advice, to uplift others who are going through hard times. But right now, I can't even help myself. Someone please help me. I don't know where I went wrong.
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You relied too much on that person. Simple as that. They make you feel wanted, then take it away. I feel for you and next time, rely more on yourself and less on them. -Justin
ReplyI'm going through something simular myself. Just posted my own story a minute ago. I'm a 21 year old guy, who lost someone he thought was special. Never before have I felt so deeply for someone, but I know eventually I'll be allright, and so will you. God bless you.
ReplyYou didn't go wrong anywhere. You just need to find the person that'll give you what you really need/want in life. Don't say you're not smart and don't say you're not pretty. Because you are. "Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and most impportantly, a beautiful soul." And everyone's smart in their own way. If the people you like don't see that, they're not right for you. If they can't appreciate you for you, keep your eyes open and try to find that one guy that will. He will eventually come into your life. There's nothing you can do wrong when it comes to love. You just have to be careful where you step. The right person just cares about you for you. Keep looking and you'll find the perfect person. Best wishes :).
ReplyYou just need to get your mojo back.
No one is perfect and isn't that great.!
How boring would that be!
Trust me the ones you think you want lots of times end up being an asshole!
Go for the nice guy....we don't give them enough credit.
You do not need to change at all you are perfect just the way you are.
ReplyYou are perfect just the way you are....just like me!
Find yourself a nice guy as we do not give nice guys the credit they deserve. Get your mojo back!
ReplyFind someone who will always appreciate you no matter what.
My ex's didn't appreciate me until I was gone.
My ex-husband pinned over me for years after I left and even to this day has not moved on.
I had a couple of ex-boyfriends who had the hardest time letting me go.
One who even stalked me.
But none of them appreciated me when they had me.
Do not settle for someone who does not see your worth from the beginning.
They will see your beauty, your smarts, your laughter, your silly, your fun, and all that you are.
They could never put you down,they could never leave you to find better because they know they have found the very best.
Some people don't recognize real beauty or love until it is too late unfortunately.
So do not worry there will always be someone who does see you for all that you are and the rest that missed that opportunity. ..fuck...em!
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