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I THINK I'm gay.. I mean I like girls and Im attracted and shizz but I keep denying it mainly because I'm Catholic and a devout one. I know you guys are gonna say "Just go for it, it's not like God will condemn you" or stuff like that but I need people to understand that I'm torn and that this is hard. Being a Catholic , I grew up being taught to love everyone equally for who they are but I was also taught that it's strictly just man & woman.
However, since I think I'm actually gay, I'm kind of suppressing it cuz I know "It can't be" and that "it's normal and it's just a phase kind of thing" but im legitly just denying it and im so confused
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just be who you want to be. you only live once so make the most of it. if you want to be gay the only person stopping you is YOU. :)
ReplyHey! Hey! HEY!
I am a Catholic as well and I'm having interest towards girls.
People will say that I am not a real Christian and all that stuff, but not even the so-called "real" Christians knows what is about the law which Jesus established before his death:
Love each other as I loved you.It is all about LOVE!
But people are getting it wrong, they're establishing a niche of "who deserves and who doesn't", "right and wrong."I want you to know that I'm with you. You are not alone. Keep your chin up. You deserve to find your happiness. It's alright with you.
ReplyIf I were gay I would not hide it at all....I am not as I absolutely LOVE men...yes I am female. ....but in this day and age there is no reason to hide it at all!
I can appreciate how a woman looks and all....but just because I am looking to see. What my guy might like about her....I even point some out to him....lol. only because I like to get him going a little. 😊
ReplyPS
Also by watching other women I get ideas for sexy outfits or moves that will help drive my guy out of his mind..the more knowledge you have the better it can be.......just saying....
ReplyWho says you have to be anything. Just be you. Wether you like a girl or boy, you can't help who you are attracted to or who you fall in love with. It can happen with either sex. You are open enough to try and be in a relationship with the same sex, I say good for you for being so courageous!! Have fun, be yourself!!!!
ReplyI'm lesbian and happy this way.
Just remember this:
“If it's bitter at the start
Then it's sweeter in the end"
ReplyIf God were to be symbolised as an animal. It might not be what you may first think.
Not a proud and powerful lion, or as white and pure as dove, but as a wild goose, unruly and wild, unpredictable and common place (at least in Ireland).Nobody knows the essence of God. It is our priests and ministers that interpret this.
If it's one thing I noticed Jesus always showed compassion. This I think can determine at least some of the essence of God...
Compassion! Show Compassion in what you do and I do not think that you will be able to go far from where God wants you to be.
Compassion to your neighbours and compassion to yourself by being perhaps in your case true to yourself.I think that God does not have concerated areas, but all areas are concercrated. I do not think that there are concentrated times but all times are concentrated. And usually God may appear in something we least expect it to.I hope that you may find peace.
ReplyWhat youre experiencing is cognitive dissonance. You have to ask yourself how BADLY you want to get rid of this identity crisis. It will never go away until you consciously decide what you believe in - either you consciously decide to seek the opposite of your preference or you do what seems natural. I think in the grand scheme of things, God may have specific rules written there but there has to be an extent attributed to those rules, and one that outweighs all of them is to love your brothers and sisters. This is no universal truth in a bibliogical sense, but as a person of free will you have a choice. As you grow you'll come to terms with this clearer. It definitely did for me, and while I am not out yet myself, It has been liberating to be aware and accept my preference.
ReplyFeelings are just feelings. Your feelings are not your identity. Your "self" evolves. Why choose a fixed "self?"
I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just trust God.
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