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So I finally got up the courage to come out to my mom and told her I have a girlfriend and I'm bisexual and what does she say, 1st of all "you're not allowed to date" and 2nd "let's keep this between you and me." UGH!! I only came out to her so that me and my girlfriend could go out in public as a couple and I want to tell everyone that I'm bisexual and I have a girlfriend that I love very very much. I don't care what anyone else thinks and I don't understand why she does. I am not breaking up with my girlfriend and I want to come out to everyone else whether she likes it or not. Any advice on what I should do? Like should I rebel or should I listen, and keep my sexuality a secret? Just letting you know I have known I was bisexual for 2 years and me and my girlfriend have been dating close to 4 months.
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Im Rebellion but no, dont rebel with your mom, its going to be messy; for a very long time. She haven't understand or see things clearly yet, her generations is different than yours. Let her think herself, we can't change people to like same as what we are. Respect that way.In conclusion, dont try to win arguement with you mom AND still go date with your girl. Date secretly? Nahh. Do whatever you want, soon enough your mom will accept it, as long you keep your relationship with your mom okeyh.Be a good child, be a good lover.
ReplyI feel your pain. I told my ex that I was bisexual and he was like "You should've kept that to yourself".... And he wonders why I broke up with him (long before I told him that) lol but ya i guess it's kinda somewhere in between. Like hear her out in the sense that she just cares about you, ya' know? She means well, I'm sure. Just that a lot of people still surprisingly don't realize how freakin NORMAL it is to be gay. We're no diff, but that's the part where I'd technically say "rebel"? But not necessarily that, more like reason with her.
Cuz thats all it is really; she just wants it to stay between the two of you for "safety" cuz she cares, but you gotta be more like "No mom this is who i am and" basically like you shared here at Novni, "i want to publicly love my girlfriend like any other person in love would" but maybe you dont have to say in those exact words. I know I'M not strong enough to talk this way xD but I am definitely always thinking it. HOWEVER, she could also just be like any other when she means "you're not allowed to date". Cuz my mom didn't want me dating til i turned 15 for whatever reason idk, it had nothing to do with being gay. But still, that in itself is just a whole diff topic. Anyway sorry if I confused u a little there. Basically, don't rebel OR obey your mom. Just always listen to what she has to say and then reason with her ^-^ good luck, hope this helps! <3
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