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Today I have finally realized that my relationship is officially over. We have been together 5 1/2 years and have a beautiful daughter together but I cannot take this anymore. He will hardly talk to me unless it is to criticize me or if he needs something. He never use to be like this. What has change? He has made me loathe coming home and I am becoming more and more depressed. I don't even wanna do housework or anything involving me being around him (which makes him mad, but then again, so does everything I do). I am begging for extended shifts at work at this point.
I just want to leave him but he will not let me. He becomes psychotic everytime I tell him it is over and tries to pit my daughter against me. I am afraid to tell anyone what a crap show my life is right now. What do I do?
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It's best to get specialist advice regarding the leaving process , for instance I didn't inform my ex husband when I eventually left as he used to freak out if I said I wanted to . I've also read that it's not a good idea to pack a bag in readiness as discovery could trigger your partner .
It's even more vital that you seek specialist advice as there is a child involved . If you have any pets do not leave them ; it is also easier to make arrangements including them than it used to be .
This sounds like a potentially incendiary situation and I wish you the best of luck .
ReplyJust leave. Don't threaten it, just one day leave and do what you have to do for you and your daughter's happiness. A child knows when there's no love in the household and it's no good for them. Everyone deserves to be happy in the life their living simply because life is so short...A lot of the times people like that will bluff but you can't be sure. Take everything he says to you completely serious and just get out of there. It'll be a long road ahead but it will be worth it. Good luck.
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