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I just broke up with my first boyfriend and love, ever. He was a jerk, and I know it. I was the one to break up with him, so I don't know why I'm missing him... I don't want to miss him, and I wasn't happy when I was dating him... yet again he was my first boyfriend and first love... but it could've been a dare. I know I deserve better, so I don't know why I'm feeling this way... can someone tell me why I'm feeling this way, and how I can stop it. (by the way, telling myself I deserve better and reminding myself why I broke up with him isn't helping me).
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Everyone feels this way when it's their first boyfriend. Your first boyfriend is the first guy you'll ever love besides your family and friends. They are the ones who show you what it's like to be in a relationship. You will have so many other guys that will soon make you forget about him though. Try to find a new guy that will make you forget about your first boyfriend faster. You can also try focusing on yourself and friendships. Keep yourself distracted. Just don't go back to him. It will hurt and you will miss him but if you go back nothing will change. He will still make you unhappy boys don't really change. Think of how you'd want a boyfriend to be and how you'd want one to treat you. Then find that guy, the one that will make you happy through everything and one that you know loves you for who you are. It will get better soon. Time heals. I hope everything gets better soon for you :)
ReplyThank you... I'm hurt, but, this lifts some pain off my heart.
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