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Becoming a father is my dream, but I don't want to get married. Why? To put it simply, I want my children to be extremely close to me. I want to be the primary caregiver. I want to be the one who my children go to for everything. I don't want them to be closer to a mother. I don't want to be a secondary parent.
Even if a man is a stay-at-home dad, the mother is still viewed as a "primary" parent. The mother is the one who teachers will call, the mother is the one people expect to stay home with children when they are sick, the mother is the one who is shown in all commercials involving children, the mother is the one people always talk about when it comes to a newborn baby. If a father is involved in any of these things, it is seen as weird. If I were to get married, everybody would view her as the more "important" parent and I will be seen as secondary. I'm not going to play by these stupid society standards. I don't want some woman being seen as more important to my children than me. I'm not going to get married. I will raise my children alone. That way I will be seen as the one and only parent to my children and no woman will get in the way. If anybody has a problem with it, I don't care. I don't freaking care. If you want me to live my life happily in this godforsaken place you called planet Earth, this is how I'm going to do it. I didn't ask to be born male. I didn't choose to be part of this destiny where I'm forced to play second in parenthood. If I'm going to live my life as a male on this planet, I'm not going to suck up to society standards. I'm going to do what I want. I can't wait to adopt/find a surrogate and be seen as the one and only loving parent and not have some woman get all the attention. This is my life. And I do what I want.
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