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I'm a professional but between clients thay haven't paid and medical bills, I'm broke. I'm scared I can't pay any of my bills or loans this month. I've applied to companies for 2nd job but no bites as yet. I'm so stressed about it. :( I'm not irresponsible with spending so it breaks my heart more to be in this position. And I'm supporting my parents. I don't want them to worry.
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That is horrible. Why isn't there up front payment of some sort..what type of work is it? Or if you have given services..payment should be tendered and rendered at that moment.
ReplyPray! I will pray with you. Then ask your family to help you make some financial changes. Budgeting money and spending more carefully. Cut off expenses that are extra or not essential, by making a list of what is. Ask lender and debtors for extensions, deferments, temporary holds, freezing or suspensions on accounts, special programs, right now. etc. Downsize lifestyle and perhaps trade in car for different one with less payment and ins. Ask for help from brothers, sisters, cousins, close friends, spouse, etc. Ask kids for help around the house in the event you have an extra "project" aka job to take on. Ask for confidential support from church, community, or employer. After all is done on your end, discuss new situation with your parents. Let them know what you have done to rectify it. Perhaps Zthey may be of more assistance than you could imagine. "The sage puts himself last and becomes the first."
ReplyThere may be special programs for you or your parents if you are footing major medical bills. Major illnesses and diseases have charity funds set up for these purposes. Do not remain broken hearted. Love is the greatest of all foods.
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